Does bad sex turn women off?

[SargeMaximus]

I don’t think so. My longest relationship (14 months and sex 2+ times daily for 12 of those months) I never got her off. Only once but I don’t even know if that was real.

contrast that to girls I made squirt so much they needed to change mattresses or scream so loud the neighbors complained yet they didn’t want to see me again.

finally, one of the hottest girls I knew was always complaining about how her bf came too quickly. And yet she stayed.

so I think there are other things at play tbvh

 

[RazorRambo24]

Depends on the gal but 100% A girl who highly prioritizes sex will not hesitate to leave you if the sex is bad. Thats most women these days in all honesty.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

Depends on the gal but 100% A girl who highly prioritizes sex will not hesitate to leave you if the sex is bad. Thats most women these days in all honesty.

I wonder if giving crappy sex on purpose is a good strategy if you wanna quit the relationship but would rather have her to do it.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Turned off? not really. She’s already probably super horny. Dissapointed & upset? Likely. Worst case I had was ED when my Zoomer GF & I were going to do it for the first time. My Mom was dying (I didn’t tell her) & I was stressed. She was really upset & told me ‘You better fvcking get some Viagra!’. Ultimately. She didn’t leave me.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Depends on her age, and experience level. But for the most part women are very disappointed when you can’t hold off, unless she knows you can get her off and it’s just a quickie.

For guys that have issues like this I always recommend long foreplay, and trying to make her O before you penetrate her. Watch some videos on how to finger a woman, how to touch her body, and frankly learn how to go down on a chick. While you develop sexual stamina you can satisfy them through other means.

I don’t do oral. Most girls I’ve been with seem to want minimal foreplay (fingering & tvttie time) and want it in right away.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Whatever works for you and your situation brother - i can only speak for my own experience.

I don’t do oral. Most girls I’ve been with seem to want minimal foreplay (fingering & tvttie time) and want it in right away.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Whatever works for you and your situation brother - i can only speak for my own experience.

I know. Everyone here’s experiences are sll so varied.

 

[Divorced w 3]

I can’t say that bad sex will turn her off, but good sex will keep you in the game longer and make up for a lot of mistakes.

To illustrate… my ex and I are days away I think from signing papers. I am 50/50 on sending her the emoji. It was a really awful divorce, about as bad as one could have imagined, but one thing we always had was sex… people are always like, if you knew you were gonna file how did you end up with 3 kids…well…

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Hard to say. I am actually more inclined to wonder if they care more about how soon you have sex or how hard you push for it (regardless if they go through with it and how good or bad it is). And I wonder if it's viable to purposely hold off, though this seems likely to backfire.

I only say this because I don't really notice a correlation between how good the sex is and how long she sticks around, but what I have noticed is that almost every girl I'm with is a 1st or 2nd date bang and I'm not sure if that's always a good idea.

 

[member162951]

If you can get them sexually addicted to you, nothing will turn them off and I mean that quite literally.

 

[BadBoy89]

If you are not good in bed you need to work on that and get more practice.

With who?

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Ideally with a FWB or girlfriend^

You don't get good at sex with one night stands with various women.