"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Does anyone use ING Direct?

rjones

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I want to start saving money and was thinking about ING because of the high interest rates. What do you guys think about them?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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I have a buddy who works with a lot of banks as some sort of intermediatory
and he always recommends them. I've heard good things from a few poeple.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I have had an account with them for a few years, no complaints.
 

Oxide

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How do you withdraw, do they have Atm's set up or is it purely online?

there was a moment their rates shot up for some promotions and you could score almost 5%, I almost got it. As soon as I have considerable amount of money to put in a bank it will go to ING
 
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