"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Does anyone use ING Direct?

rjones

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I want to start saving money and was thinking about ING because of the high interest rates. What do you guys think about them?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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I have a buddy who works with a lot of banks as some sort of intermediatory
and he always recommends them. I've heard good things from a few poeple.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I have had an account with them for a few years, no complaints.
 

Oxide

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How do you withdraw, do they have Atm's set up or is it purely online?

there was a moment their rates shot up for some promotions and you could score almost 5%, I almost got it. As soon as I have considerable amount of money to put in a bank it will go to ING
 
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