I mean walking up to a girl and saying something along the lines of "You're beautiful, what's your name?" or "Nice legs, do you work out?" (half-joking on that one), that sort of thing. I want to try that but it's not easy to get my balls in order to try it.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Does anyone try totally direct approaches?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
the truth is, its really different for everyone. Some women like adirect guy, some will feel its a bit too strong for em.
Therers no definitve YES or NO.
It's like a gamble. Heads or Tails?> Will it be heads? or will it be tails? place your bet..
Therers no definitve YES or NO.
It's like a gamble. Heads or Tails?> Will it be heads? or will it be tails? place your bet..
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That's what I figured... now just to get that confidence.Zebedee said:Those lines can work if they are delivered with supreme confidence and a smile without confidence it makes you look desperate but the right delivery will make you look like a confident man who knows what he wants.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I was uping a girl while her friends were buying stuff in the convinience store i was posted up on. While i was pitching one of our clubs, this guy rolle up on her with the direct "you're hot what's up?" line.She was about 23 slim and hot while he was fat, bald, drunk, and on the wrong side of 40. I'm not sure exactly what it was she said to him but it was a one hitter quitter and he was out. Confidence is still king for a one hit kill line but go in with an understanding of how you are precieved and play your hand accordingly.
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if im getting signals yeah or if they girl seems like she would be into it,...
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Dunno I used to direct approaches but its much easier for me to screen the weird ones If I use indirect. Its easier to gain a sense of were the chick stands what type of game to use etc.
Also just a reminder, if you use indirect game make sure to use alot of heavy teasing flirting. weather convo's r not very good if you want to eventually pull.
Also just a reminder, if you use indirect game make sure to use alot of heavy teasing flirting. weather convo's r not very good if you want to eventually pull.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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I do...check out my journal...last 4 approaches with my newest method = 3 numbers
She_feelin_Me
Don Juan
Direct approaches always work with confidence....Teej said:I mean walking up to a girl and saying something along the lines of "You're beautiful, what's your name?" or "Nice legs, do you work out?" (half-joking on that one), that sort of thing. I want to try that but it's not easy to get my balls in order to try it.
I wouldnt never compliment a female, i wouldnt never say how pretty, beautiful, sexy, good looking bs ever, the answer is this: Women here this all day, the cute ones do. You probably the third guy that says this to her so I always try another approach and bounce off my surroundings...
Be courteous and ask a question to drop her defenses, women have defenses, strategies when an unexpected male comes over to talk. Believe me I have been schooled from my sister, my female friend's, their friends and so on. Some women already have that rejection line ready to use on a guy with weak game.
Another thing I never do is ask a female is she single...She prob is single but will tell you no I am not single, I have a man, I am marride(no wedding ring present) just for you to carry on with your weak lines...So never use that line because a woman can tell you anything.
Always come at a female totally different than the average man....On the train:
You: Hey excuse me I have a question....You know any good night clubs are at? (you can know every night club in the city like the back of your hand but she dont know...)
You just breaking the ice and going off her responses thats all. No dumb ass lines blowing her head up even more than it once was.
scrouds
Master Don Juan
I read "totally direct" and it reminds me of quentin tarrantino films. How about this from Jackie Brown:
[Louis and Melanie are looking at a picture]
Melanie: That's Japan.
Louis: Uh, looks like... I can... It shows...
Melanie: Wanna fuuck?
Louis: Yeah.
[three minutes later]
Melanie: That was fun.
Louis: Yeah, that hit the spot.
Melanie: Now, we can catch up.
Louis: Yeah. [heavy breathing] Got a beer?
Melanie: Sure. In the fridge.
[Louis and Melanie are looking at a picture]
Melanie: That's Japan.
Louis: Uh, looks like... I can... It shows...
Melanie: Wanna fuuck?
Louis: Yeah.
[three minutes later]
Melanie: That was fun.
Louis: Yeah, that hit the spot.
Melanie: Now, we can catch up.
Louis: Yeah. [heavy breathing] Got a beer?
Melanie: Sure. In the fridge.