I mean walking up to a girl and saying something along the lines of "You're beautiful, what's your name?" or "Nice legs, do you work out?" (half-joking on that one), that sort of thing. I want to try that but it's not easy to get my balls in order to try it.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Does anyone try totally direct approaches?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
the truth is, its really different for everyone. Some women like adirect guy, some will feel its a bit too strong for em.
Therers no definitve YES or NO.
It's like a gamble. Heads or Tails?> Will it be heads? or will it be tails? place your bet..
Therers no definitve YES or NO.
It's like a gamble. Heads or Tails?> Will it be heads? or will it be tails? place your bet..
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That's what I figured... now just to get that confidence.Zebedee said:Those lines can work if they are delivered with supreme confidence and a smile without confidence it makes you look desperate but the right delivery will make you look like a confident man who knows what he wants.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I was uping a girl while her friends were buying stuff in the convinience store i was posted up on. While i was pitching one of our clubs, this guy rolle up on her with the direct "you're hot what's up?" line.She was about 23 slim and hot while he was fat, bald, drunk, and on the wrong side of 40. I'm not sure exactly what it was she said to him but it was a one hitter quitter and he was out. Confidence is still king for a one hit kill line but go in with an understanding of how you are precieved and play your hand accordingly.
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if im getting signals yeah or if they girl seems like she would be into it,...
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Dunno I used to direct approaches but its much easier for me to screen the weird ones If I use indirect. Its easier to gain a sense of were the chick stands what type of game to use etc.
Also just a reminder, if you use indirect game make sure to use alot of heavy teasing flirting. weather convo's r not very good if you want to eventually pull.
Also just a reminder, if you use indirect game make sure to use alot of heavy teasing flirting. weather convo's r not very good if you want to eventually pull.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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I do...check out my journal...last 4 approaches with my newest method = 3 numbers
She_feelin_Me
Don Juan
Direct approaches always work with confidence....Teej said:I mean walking up to a girl and saying something along the lines of "You're beautiful, what's your name?" or "Nice legs, do you work out?" (half-joking on that one), that sort of thing. I want to try that but it's not easy to get my balls in order to try it.
I wouldnt never compliment a female, i wouldnt never say how pretty, beautiful, sexy, good looking bs ever, the answer is this: Women here this all day, the cute ones do. You probably the third guy that says this to her so I always try another approach and bounce off my surroundings...
Be courteous and ask a question to drop her defenses, women have defenses, strategies when an unexpected male comes over to talk. Believe me I have been schooled from my sister, my female friend's, their friends and so on. Some women already have that rejection line ready to use on a guy with weak game.
Another thing I never do is ask a female is she single...She prob is single but will tell you no I am not single, I have a man, I am marride(no wedding ring present) just for you to carry on with your weak lines...So never use that line because a woman can tell you anything.
Always come at a female totally different than the average man....On the train:
You: Hey excuse me I have a question....You know any good night clubs are at? (you can know every night club in the city like the back of your hand but she dont know...)
You just breaking the ice and going off her responses thats all. No dumb ass lines blowing her head up even more than it once was.
scrouds
Master Don Juan
I read "totally direct" and it reminds me of quentin tarrantino films. How about this from Jackie Brown:
[Louis and Melanie are looking at a picture]
Melanie: That's Japan.
Louis: Uh, looks like... I can... It shows...
Melanie: Wanna fuuck?
Louis: Yeah.
[three minutes later]
Melanie: That was fun.
Louis: Yeah, that hit the spot.
Melanie: Now, we can catch up.
Louis: Yeah. [heavy breathing] Got a beer?
Melanie: Sure. In the fridge.
[Louis and Melanie are looking at a picture]
Melanie: That's Japan.
Louis: Uh, looks like... I can... It shows...
Melanie: Wanna fuuck?
Louis: Yeah.
[three minutes later]
Melanie: That was fun.
Louis: Yeah, that hit the spot.
Melanie: Now, we can catch up.
Louis: Yeah. [heavy breathing] Got a beer?
Melanie: Sure. In the fridge.