"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SoSuaveDude

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these DJ techniques attract nothing but: BPD, sloots, cheaters, Liers, Flakers, etc. Might be just me, but i've yet to land a "worthy quality" women through the techniques of pua. The ****y funny, push pull techniques only work on the damaged insecure sluts. The waiting an hour to text back, and remaining "mysterious" tactics only succeeds with women seeking a quick thrill. Don't get me wrong, if you're trying to get a quick lay, then go to the bar and put the pua persona on all you want. However, the fact remains that if you're looking for anything more than a quick keyhole for your third leg, you're sh*t out of luck. The pua persona becomes stale to most women very quickly, thus the pua always have to find new plates.

Anyone have any input? Have you gotten a "good (for lack of a better term) girl") via pua techniques.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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gimmeyofonenumba

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Ya. I'd agree for the most part. Thoose routines work like magic on hot girls with a screw loose in the head. However, tips I've read on body language,kino and various other things are all things you can employ to get a quality girl. At the end of the day it's just improving the quality of your life. What good is life if you get the hot and intelligent chick but your spiritual,social and work life are awful. Does'nt that mean the girl who really isnt the prize. Actually really is the prize in your life?
 

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I don't use PUA techniques.

The main things I learned from this site were to NEXT a girl who's not showing good signs, that women LIKE being treated as sex objects (just not 100% of the time), and to keep my options open by not committing to the first girl who spreads her legs for me.

Don't confuse the DJ stuff with PUA techniques. Two different categories. PUA involves faking a lot of things, acting like someone else. DJ encourages you to evolve into a better, more interesting version of yourself.

****y&Funny, push-pull, and "act mysterious" are gimmicks. What I've done is actually BECOME funny, grow confidence (not ****iness), and I have mystery in the sense that I'm not sitting around talking about my feelings with these women. They never quite know how I feel about them. Which I find that women actually like. I'm not texting all day or calling all the time, because I'm legitimately busy. That's not a "technique."

So yeah, if you're going out to clubs imitating some PUA guy you saw on TV, then you're going to attract these crazy girls who act like Paris Hilton, Kim Kardashian, or whoever they're imitating from TV. Because it'll be two crazy people, faking an image, trying to have some kind of relationship together. Develop yourself into a well-rounded person, and you'll attract the same....although even then you'll attract a few crazies along the way. Such is life.
 

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I don't see why this is true. PUA theory is applicable to any kind of women. The gimmicks that you describe are parts of the overall PUA mindset. It is the mindset that makes the PUA, not the gimmicks associated with it.

However, I do notice that the guys on here tend to use PUA theory mainly to get low-quality women for quick lays. But PUA theory is certainly not limited to that.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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