"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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these DJ techniques attract nothing but: BPD, sloots, cheaters, Liers, Flakers, etc. Might be just me, but i've yet to land a "worthy quality" women through the techniques of pua. The ****y funny, push pull techniques only work on the damaged insecure sluts. The waiting an hour to text back, and remaining "mysterious" tactics only succeeds with women seeking a quick thrill. Don't get me wrong, if you're trying to get a quick lay, then go to the bar and put the pua persona on all you want. However, the fact remains that if you're looking for anything more than a quick keyhole for your third leg, you're sh*t out of luck. The pua persona becomes stale to most women very quickly, thus the pua always have to find new plates.

Anyone have any input? Have you gotten a "good (for lack of a better term) girl") via pua techniques.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ya. I'd agree for the most part. Thoose routines work like magic on hot girls with a screw loose in the head. However, tips I've read on body language,kino and various other things are all things you can employ to get a quality girl. At the end of the day it's just improving the quality of your life. What good is life if you get the hot and intelligent chick but your spiritual,social and work life are awful. Does'nt that mean the girl who really isnt the prize. Actually really is the prize in your life?
 

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I don't use PUA techniques.

The main things I learned from this site were to NEXT a girl who's not showing good signs, that women LIKE being treated as sex objects (just not 100% of the time), and to keep my options open by not committing to the first girl who spreads her legs for me.

Don't confuse the DJ stuff with PUA techniques. Two different categories. PUA involves faking a lot of things, acting like someone else. DJ encourages you to evolve into a better, more interesting version of yourself.

****y&Funny, push-pull, and "act mysterious" are gimmicks. What I've done is actually BECOME funny, grow confidence (not ****iness), and I have mystery in the sense that I'm not sitting around talking about my feelings with these women. They never quite know how I feel about them. Which I find that women actually like. I'm not texting all day or calling all the time, because I'm legitimately busy. That's not a "technique."

So yeah, if you're going out to clubs imitating some PUA guy you saw on TV, then you're going to attract these crazy girls who act like Paris Hilton, Kim Kardashian, or whoever they're imitating from TV. Because it'll be two crazy people, faking an image, trying to have some kind of relationship together. Develop yourself into a well-rounded person, and you'll attract the same....although even then you'll attract a few crazies along the way. Such is life.
 

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I don't see why this is true. PUA theory is applicable to any kind of women. The gimmicks that you describe are parts of the overall PUA mindset. It is the mindset that makes the PUA, not the gimmicks associated with it.

However, I do notice that the guys on here tend to use PUA theory mainly to get low-quality women for quick lays. But PUA theory is certainly not limited to that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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