"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SoSuaveDude

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these DJ techniques attract nothing but: BPD, sloots, cheaters, Liers, Flakers, etc. Might be just me, but i've yet to land a "worthy quality" women through the techniques of pua. The ****y funny, push pull techniques only work on the damaged insecure sluts. The waiting an hour to text back, and remaining "mysterious" tactics only succeeds with women seeking a quick thrill. Don't get me wrong, if you're trying to get a quick lay, then go to the bar and put the pua persona on all you want. However, the fact remains that if you're looking for anything more than a quick keyhole for your third leg, you're sh*t out of luck. The pua persona becomes stale to most women very quickly, thus the pua always have to find new plates.

Anyone have any input? Have you gotten a "good (for lack of a better term) girl") via pua techniques.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ya. I'd agree for the most part. Thoose routines work like magic on hot girls with a screw loose in the head. However, tips I've read on body language,kino and various other things are all things you can employ to get a quality girl. At the end of the day it's just improving the quality of your life. What good is life if you get the hot and intelligent chick but your spiritual,social and work life are awful. Does'nt that mean the girl who really isnt the prize. Actually really is the prize in your life?
 

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I don't use PUA techniques.

The main things I learned from this site were to NEXT a girl who's not showing good signs, that women LIKE being treated as sex objects (just not 100% of the time), and to keep my options open by not committing to the first girl who spreads her legs for me.

Don't confuse the DJ stuff with PUA techniques. Two different categories. PUA involves faking a lot of things, acting like someone else. DJ encourages you to evolve into a better, more interesting version of yourself.

****y&Funny, push-pull, and "act mysterious" are gimmicks. What I've done is actually BECOME funny, grow confidence (not ****iness), and I have mystery in the sense that I'm not sitting around talking about my feelings with these women. They never quite know how I feel about them. Which I find that women actually like. I'm not texting all day or calling all the time, because I'm legitimately busy. That's not a "technique."

So yeah, if you're going out to clubs imitating some PUA guy you saw on TV, then you're going to attract these crazy girls who act like Paris Hilton, Kim Kardashian, or whoever they're imitating from TV. Because it'll be two crazy people, faking an image, trying to have some kind of relationship together. Develop yourself into a well-rounded person, and you'll attract the same....although even then you'll attract a few crazies along the way. Such is life.
 

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I don't see why this is true. PUA theory is applicable to any kind of women. The gimmicks that you describe are parts of the overall PUA mindset. It is the mindset that makes the PUA, not the gimmicks associated with it.

However, I do notice that the guys on here tend to use PUA theory mainly to get low-quality women for quick lays. But PUA theory is certainly not limited to that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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