Albert Steam
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Or is it all about vlogging now?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm just wondering if any of the pointers or advice are valid on this forum. If I could see the FR's and LR's of the guys posting, it would give their advice more credibility.Ignore the bitterness, cynicism and AFC jealousy and just post them.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Some guys do post FRs and LRs on here. Most of them are in journals. My journal has a link in my signature.Or is it all about vlogging now?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It seems like everyone posting here are mgtow or no contact spambots. They seem to have a few set or pet phrases they repeat over and over again. It's ****ing weird.Ignore the bitterness, cynicism and AFC jealousy and just post them.
You need to go an see Mamma Mia 2.It seems like everyone posting here are mgtow or no contact spambots. They seem to have a few set or pet phrases they repeat over and over again. It's ****ing weird.
I saw your post and just had to login. If you want to see some ruthless shvt, check out my previous posts. I had to leave this site some time ago due to the fact that this place is a bit too watered down.Or is it all about vlogging now?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.