"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Does Anyone Post Field Reports or Lay Reports?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Duke

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Most of these guys never approach or go on dates! :p The closest thing you will get are stories like:
-She twerked on me at a party, does she like me?
-She dropped her tampon's in front of me at the store, what does this mean?
-She was holding a cucumber at the grocery store and I think she smiled at me, what should I do?
-I am really hot and everybody thinks I'm awesome. Most girls aren't good enough for me but what do you think of my ultimate plan? Never mind I'm afraid of pu$$y and don't even know what it looks like.
 
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I used to post fr when I first started getting into the DJ lifestyle. I would have 3-5 dates a week. Tales of parking lot BJ's and first date lays and what not.

I have slowed down considerably. Now I have long term plates I screw on the regular. One plate bought me two feather pillows yesterday.

Anyway what I'm doing now is not that interesting. You might do a search for field reports. There are plenty on the board.
 

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Ignore the bitterness, cynicism and AFC jealousy and just post them.
I'm just wondering if any of the pointers or advice are valid on this forum. If I could see the FR's and LR's of the guys posting, it would give their advice more credibility.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I don't see any FR's or LR's on this forum at least not on the 1st couple of pages. Also, there's no FR or LR section.

There's no way of gauging who has any actual success if they're not willing to document it. That means people are posting random memes and cliches.
 

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On RSD Nation forums there is good active section of field reports , here you might find some on general forums
 

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Theres really no need. Unless they need advice, field reports are nothing more than attention seeking behavior. It's like golf, If they lie about their experiences, they are the only ones losing.

And some may not want to write stories about something that could come back and bite them in the azz. ;)
 

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It’s attention wh0ring. I think I posted a LR before but now I don’t see the point. I’d rather just come on here and get some advice or find out what other people are doing
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You still see some approach and lay reports. But a lot of the focus here now isn’t so much about getting women. It’s 1) how to protect oneself from their potential distruction and 2) just be a great man in general with or without women.
 

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It's fine. I've gotten a pretty good sense of the quality and level of experience of posters over the past few days of posting. :)
 

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Ignore the bitterness, cynicism and AFC jealousy and just post them.
It seems like everyone posting here are mgtow or no contact spambots. They seem to have a few set or pet phrases they repeat over and over again. It's ****ing weird.
 

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It seems like everyone posting here are mgtow or no contact spambots. They seem to have a few set or pet phrases they repeat over and over again. It's ****ing weird.
You need to go an see Mamma Mia 2.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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