"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Does Anyone Post Field Reports or Lay Reports?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Most of these guys never approach or go on dates! :p The closest thing you will get are stories like:
-She twerked on me at a party, does she like me?
-She dropped her tampon's in front of me at the store, what does this mean?
-She was holding a cucumber at the grocery store and I think she smiled at me, what should I do?
-I am really hot and everybody thinks I'm awesome. Most girls aren't good enough for me but what do you think of my ultimate plan? Never mind I'm afraid of pu$$y and don't even know what it looks like.
 
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I used to post fr when I first started getting into the DJ lifestyle. I would have 3-5 dates a week. Tales of parking lot BJ's and first date lays and what not.

I have slowed down considerably. Now I have long term plates I screw on the regular. One plate bought me two feather pillows yesterday.

Anyway what I'm doing now is not that interesting. You might do a search for field reports. There are plenty on the board.
 

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Ignore the bitterness, cynicism and AFC jealousy and just post them.
I'm just wondering if any of the pointers or advice are valid on this forum. If I could see the FR's and LR's of the guys posting, it would give their advice more credibility.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I don't see any FR's or LR's on this forum at least not on the 1st couple of pages. Also, there's no FR or LR section.

There's no way of gauging who has any actual success if they're not willing to document it. That means people are posting random memes and cliches.
 

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On RSD Nation forums there is good active section of field reports , here you might find some on general forums
 

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Theres really no need. Unless they need advice, field reports are nothing more than attention seeking behavior. It's like golf, If they lie about their experiences, they are the only ones losing.

And some may not want to write stories about something that could come back and bite them in the azz. ;)
 

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It’s attention wh0ring. I think I posted a LR before but now I don’t see the point. I’d rather just come on here and get some advice or find out what other people are doing
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You still see some approach and lay reports. But a lot of the focus here now isn’t so much about getting women. It’s 1) how to protect oneself from their potential distruction and 2) just be a great man in general with or without women.
 

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It's fine. I've gotten a pretty good sense of the quality and level of experience of posters over the past few days of posting. :)
 

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Ignore the bitterness, cynicism and AFC jealousy and just post them.
It seems like everyone posting here are mgtow or no contact spambots. They seem to have a few set or pet phrases they repeat over and over again. It's ****ing weird.
 

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It seems like everyone posting here are mgtow or no contact spambots. They seem to have a few set or pet phrases they repeat over and over again. It's ****ing weird.
You need to go an see Mamma Mia 2.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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