"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Does anyone on here have anything positive to say about women?

Wily

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Women have good qualities, I'm currently seeing a girl who is very honest, buys food and cooks it for me, and does very well in bed.. One of the best infact.

But it's still the same girl that was wanting to see me while she had a BF and literally ditched him at the swimming pool while they were together, just to talk to me. And all the stuff she does for me isn't because she cares about me, it's because she cares what I can/could do for her.

This experience.. and I've never wanted to truly accept it - but I think I've finally accepted that Women don't actually care about their partners, just what they can provide them with. Can't dislike them for it, it's just the way things are.
Biological
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SeymourCake

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Women give birth to boys who become the men that build civilization. That’s their only redeeming quality. Other than that, they serve no purpose.
 

guru1000

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Women are absolutely great. All of them. Whom you meet is a reflection of you. If you all you meet are terrible women, then you are simply meeting a projection of that part of you which is terrible.

People—not just women—respond to your energy. If you smile (and she’s interested), she’ll smile. If you are equivocal, she’ll be equivocal.

Look in the mirror, not at women.

Notice the men in the forum who do the worst with women have the worst attitudes; and the best have the best. Is it the chicken or egg that came first (the bad results with women or the bad attitude)? It was the egg (the man), because within that egg was all the potentiality of that chicken (the woman).
 

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Women are absolutely great. All of them.
Rule #1 of being a Don Juan; thou shall not put women on a pedastal. Go back to reading the DJ Bible and look into the DJ bootcamp.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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zekko

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Rule #1 of being a Don Juan; thou shall not put women on a pedastal. Go back to reading the DJ Bible and look into the DJ bootcamp.
Saying women are great is not putting women on a pedestal. Saying women are greater than you is putting them on a pedestal.
 

guru1000

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Rule #1 of being a Don Juan; thou shall not put women on a pedastal. Go back to reading the DJ Bible and look into the DJ bootcamp.
Seymour you’re great too although you went against my post. That’s because I see the excellence in your intent.
 
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