Wily
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Biological
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Does anyone on here have anything positive to say about women?
- Thread starter sangheilios
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
SeymourCake
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Women give birth to boys who become the men that build civilization. That’s their only redeeming quality. Other than that, they serve no purpose.
redskinsfan92
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Now ain't that some sh1t
Life sucks sometimes
guru1000
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Women are absolutely great. All of them. Whom you meet is a reflection of you. If you all you meet are terrible women, then you are simply meeting a projection of that part of you which is terrible.
People—not just women—respond to your energy. If you smile (and she’s interested), she’ll smile. If you are equivocal, she’ll be equivocal.
Look in the mirror, not at women.
Notice the men in the forum who do the worst with women have the worst attitudes; and the best have the best. Is it the chicken or egg that came first (the bad results with women or the bad attitude)? It was the egg (the man), because within that egg was all the potentiality of that chicken (the woman).
People—not just women—respond to your energy. If you smile (and she’s interested), she’ll smile. If you are equivocal, she’ll be equivocal.
Look in the mirror, not at women.
Notice the men in the forum who do the worst with women have the worst attitudes; and the best have the best. Is it the chicken or egg that came first (the bad results with women or the bad attitude)? It was the egg (the man), because within that egg was all the potentiality of that chicken (the woman).
SeymourCake
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Rule #1 of being a Don Juan; thou shall not put women on a pedastal. Go back to reading the DJ Bible and look into the DJ bootcamp.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
zekko
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Saying women are great is not putting women on a pedestal. Saying women are greater than you is putting them on a pedestal.
guru1000
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Seymour you’re great too although you went against my post. That’s because I see the excellence in your intent.