"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Does anyone here work or just surf the net?

belividere

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So does anyone here work, while they are at work, or just surf the net? Ever since the new board has come up and I can see how many members are viewing it seems to me that the busiest hours are daytime. I'm sure a lot of the European members may be checking from home but what about everyone else.

I usually keep ss.net open in a tab on my slow days. Its good to get paid to be here.:)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I browse at work. My job requires long hours of browsing the internet, reading newspaper, magazines and sleeping in my car.
 

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yeap.....especially when there is not much to do...

They shut the site down at perfect time, because I was overloaded with work during the down time.... now we are back to "regular pace"
 

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I work for the state. They hire mostly idiots and *******s. If you qualify then all you gotta do is apply, or perhaps take an exam and be put on a list.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i do alittle bit of both. my job is being a lumper(35 bucks for every trailer i unload). i'm always on call. but when i'm not lumping it's usually games or the net. my vixen is at college so i got the pad to myself most days.
 

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insanity said:
i do alittle bit of both. my job is being a lumper(35 bucks for every trailer i unload). i'm always on call. but when i'm not lumping it's usually games or the net. my vixen is at college so i got the pad to myself most days.

100 points for "lumper" and "vixen"

:up:

p.s. whats a lumper?
 

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i never questioned the word lumper when i was getting hired for the position.
but it's basically where huge warehouse companies have trucks coming in and out dropping trailers of at the docking bays and instead of hiring workers to sit around and wait for these trucks to come in, they call me and unload the goods.
it's good money.

example if i unload 7 trucks in a day. thats 35$ per trailer= 245$. and it usually only takes 4 or 5 hours. but the sucky thing is they don't take tax off your checks.

so at the end of the year i owe money.booooooo.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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insanity said:
i never questioned the word lumper when i was getting hired for the position.
but it's basically where huge warehouse companies have trucks coming in and out dropping trailers of at the docking bays and instead of hiring workers to sit around and wait for these trucks to come in, they call me and unload the goods.
it's good money.

example if i unload 7 trucks in a day. thats 35$ per trailer= 245$. and it usually only takes 4 or 5 hours. but the sucky thing is they don't take tax off your checks.

so at the end of the year i owe money.booooooo.
I hate jobs I first think are under the table, than they send in a tax form on me.
 

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but it's basically where huge warehouse companies have trucks coming in and out dropping trailers of at the docking bays and instead of hiring workers to sit around and wait for these trucks to come in, they call me and unload the goods.
it's good money.
I used to do stuff like that, and the money was 5hit. $5 per hour times 4 hours to unload a trailer = $20. The trailers full of toilet paper were the easiest to unload.

I make three times as much money now. When it's slow here (like it is now), I sit on sosuave.
 

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It's different being a lumper versus a warehouse boy.

You were a warehouse boy Desdinova. I've been there too. Sucks signing up for a company wage versus contractor wages like a lumper, I felt like such a chump:p
 

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Yes, I'm a computer programmer. Thus I am on several hours the day...now this is life. :cool:
 

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You were a warehouse boy Desdinova. I've been there too. Sucks signing up for a company wage versus contractor wages like a lumper, I felt like such a chump
Okay, that makes more sense now. I was working through a lousy temp agency.

In other words, you ARE the temp agency ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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snobby said:
Yes, I'm a computer programmer. Thus I am on several hours the day...now this is life. :cool:
you're exactly the kind of lazy-ass programmer who's responsible for most of my very shoddy, unfinished, barely running fukked up, rip-off software. :p

..but it's alright, I fully understand the lure of sosuave;)


while(you're a lazy ba$tard){

char[20] windows_and_other_software = sub-par;

}

p.s (like most on here) I'm a student
 

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Desdinova said:
Speaking of Microsoft, some third-party software company is pointing and laughing at them:

http://www.sci-tech-today.com/story.xhtml?story_id=13000EIJ5KSQ
and so they should be - though in fairness, win xp isn't too bad. I haven't had any blue screens yet.

Fingers crossed that windows vista will be completely finished and contain vast improvements (without any severe security problems) *crosses fingers*
:D
 

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maybe people are in different time zones. i am in australia and it is 7:30pm here. but the site says its 8:30am.
 
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