"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Does anyone here actually like "talking" to women?

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Exactly my point. You can't just fvck a woman without establishing at least some kind of rapport unless you are raping her or she's a hooker.
You can... Sometimes they heard about you up the grapevine and was HIGHLY ATTRACTED and they want to give you some, and you don't even know about it. You literally don't have to say much at all
they will pursue you and come get the D...

But NORMALLY you are completely correct, she has to be open and comfortable to give it up.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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You can... Sometimes they heard about you up the grapevine and was HIGHLY ATTRACTED and they want to give you some, and you don't even know about it. You literally don't have to say much at all
they will pursue you and come get the D...

But NORMALLY you are completely correct, she has to be open and comfortable to give it up.
Well they have heard about you. That means that they basically still feel SOME kind of connection with you (attraction). Those situations are rare nonetheless though.
 

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The key to taking advantage of pre-selection is to be aggressive/sexual, in my experience. You wouldn't be pre-selected unless you were good with women. If you act shy and she's "heard" about you, then that is a MASSIVE inconguence. The reality of you and her idea of you would be worlds apart.
What if you where very physically attractive but didn't talk too much? That's how they can hear about you without you being deep into the game itself.
 

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I think you're confusing flirtatious giggling with real laughing.
I'm not actually.

Giggling is a type of laugh so it's all the same.

Also, laughing isn't always in response to something funny. Men also laugh to break tension, some people laugh when they notice a coincidence, some laugh when they notice an irony and in some instances people laugh simply because other people are laughing.
 

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They still expect you to act sexually experienced. Sexually experienced does not mean be a dancing monkey and entertain women.

Sexually experienced means she will give you cues that she is attracted to you, and you need to escalate. If you fail to escalate on signs, it betrays her image of you being popular with the ladies.

Real ladies men don't stress over "game" tactics like making women laugh, reading their palms, etc. They act from their NATURAL personality and they have experience and something called calibration. Calibration is knowing what to do in real time when the woman is giving you signs.

If you are truely pre-selected, there will come a time when she gives you a sign to escalate.

In these types of situations, you will blow yourself out for lack of experience.
This.

Tactics and clown shows are for frauds.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Exactly my point. You can't just fvck a woman without establishing at least some kind of rapport unless you are raping her or she's a hooker.
I've banged some bar sloots in under 2 hours
 
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