"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Does anyone have fashion tips?

jeff600

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I don't really know anything about matching (i.e: what looks good, what looks bad, how to match, style, etc.) so what are some good tips (I like to dress 'normal' not like a thug ganster, emo, or anything eccentric.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Charm&Style

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start out with a pair of denim, a button up fitted black shirt, leave 2 buttons open, style your hair, and add in some checkard vans. if you have enough money then get a few blazers, button up shirts with some ties and some shirts with a SICK designs.
 

Master Bates

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that's not bad advice, except for, uhh, the whole checkered shoes thing. not exactly a must-have for your wardrobe.
 

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Style has alot to do with your build. Not all people look good in the same style. you have to have your own unique style. Colors look different on people. People tell me that i look good in blue. but someone else might look good in red or green. black makes you look thinner.

I dress normal also. whatever that means. but when I go out i like to look good. im fortunate enough to be related to someone who works at a designer clothes store. light colors and dark colors go to together. light color pants, dark shirt, brown or black shoes and belt. shoes and belts must be the same color. black shoes go good with light jeans. brown with dark blue jeans.
 

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dressing has to do a lot with your character, since I usually have my blazers and shirts custom made I tend to have a unique A-list style. learning pshop helps a lot lol.

but nsu has good taste as well. light pants, dark shirt and a nice belt are b!tchin.

just try to stay away from looking like every other guy which is what happens here in orange county and LA.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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YOUNG CASINOVA

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Just keep it simple man... Find out what colors compliment you best... Usually quiet reserved people blend earth tones(greens, browns, blues) and people who are lively or like to stick out wear louder vibrant colors.(Red, Yellow, Orange) A nice button up shirt, or fitted T-shirt always works, a nice gold chain, a good pair of blue jeans, and your shoes have to be on point! (Whether they're sneakers or casual shoes) Casual shoes if you're going for a more mature look....sneakers if you just want to have a comfortable laid back appeal.
 
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