"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Does anyone have fashion tips?

jeff600

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I don't really know anything about matching (i.e: what looks good, what looks bad, how to match, style, etc.) so what are some good tips (I like to dress 'normal' not like a thug ganster, emo, or anything eccentric.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Charm&Style

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start out with a pair of denim, a button up fitted black shirt, leave 2 buttons open, style your hair, and add in some checkard vans. if you have enough money then get a few blazers, button up shirts with some ties and some shirts with a SICK designs.
 

Master Bates

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that's not bad advice, except for, uhh, the whole checkered shoes thing. not exactly a must-have for your wardrobe.
 

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Style has alot to do with your build. Not all people look good in the same style. you have to have your own unique style. Colors look different on people. People tell me that i look good in blue. but someone else might look good in red or green. black makes you look thinner.

I dress normal also. whatever that means. but when I go out i like to look good. im fortunate enough to be related to someone who works at a designer clothes store. light colors and dark colors go to together. light color pants, dark shirt, brown or black shoes and belt. shoes and belts must be the same color. black shoes go good with light jeans. brown with dark blue jeans.
 

Charm&Style

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dressing has to do a lot with your character, since I usually have my blazers and shirts custom made I tend to have a unique A-list style. learning pshop helps a lot lol.

but nsu has good taste as well. light pants, dark shirt and a nice belt are b!tchin.

just try to stay away from looking like every other guy which is what happens here in orange county and LA.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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YOUNG CASINOVA

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Just keep it simple man... Find out what colors compliment you best... Usually quiet reserved people blend earth tones(greens, browns, blues) and people who are lively or like to stick out wear louder vibrant colors.(Red, Yellow, Orange) A nice button up shirt, or fitted T-shirt always works, a nice gold chain, a good pair of blue jeans, and your shoes have to be on point! (Whether they're sneakers or casual shoes) Casual shoes if you're going for a more mature look....sneakers if you just want to have a comfortable laid back appeal.
 
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