sugar*
New Member
what kinds of clubs to people go to in minnesota? i've heard that the tropix backdoor is okay, but i heard that waterworks sux. holla back!
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Does Anyone Go Clubbin?
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
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splinterkb
Master Don Juan
Go to Stargate on Sunday nights. It's a damn nice club, a lot better than the Backdoor. Usually it's full of nice looking ladies too. Other than that, theres just Tropix Backdoor. Not too much around here for clubbin I'm afraid.
triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
For some reason I found this post hilarious. No offense to the poster, but the idea of a club scene in Minnesota cracks me up. It's almost as bad as there being a club scene here in Albuquerque. Sure we have a club scene here - two of 'em actually, right next door to each other. It's pretty sad.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
Minnesota isnt a city, its a State. And theres 4 million people that live in Minnesota.
Ace of Spades
Don Juan
Waffler, you are a moron.
Minnesota is neither a city, nor is it the largest west of the Mississippi. The are around Houston, TX is home to almost as many people as the entire state of Minnesota.
Now that I'm done being an ass, I'd like to comment on the actual post.
I've gone clubbing a couple times, but the people here who visit clubs are not very attractive and/or usually minorities. Not to be racist, but I try not to meddle with girls of other ethnicities.
Minnesota is neither a city, nor is it the largest west of the Mississippi. The are around Houston, TX is home to almost as many people as the entire state of Minnesota.
Now that I'm done being an ass, I'd like to comment on the actual post.
I've gone clubbing a couple times, but the people here who visit clubs are not very attractive and/or usually minorities. Not to be racist, but I try not to meddle with girls of other ethnicities.