"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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does anyone ever worry too much..

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i have a problem of worrying too much about girls and stuff related to that..and most of the time i know i worry too much cause it works out.. like.. she doesnt like me cuz she didnt talk to me.. or w/e.. stuff like that .. and i cant control it..its wierd.. anyone have this same problem?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Can you clarify and orgnize your thoughts just a little bit more. Mabye I can help as this seems pretty obscure and that's kind of my specialty but I honestly dont' understand the question.
 
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Originally posted by dude156
i have a problem of worrying too much about girls and stuff related to that..and most of the time i know i worry too much cause it works out.. like.. she doesnt like me cuz she didnt talk to me.. or w/e.. stuff like that .. and i cant control it..its wierd.. anyone have this same problem?
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Yes. I seem to overanalyze constantly. It's something I'm trying hard to fix. This seems to happen if you're focused on one girl. Try getting multiple girls phone numbers. Then you won't be too worried about a single one.
 
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I do it to and not just with girls, its how my brains works. But as the other poster said having other girls as prospects helps a lot. If I only have one girl to think about then I will deffinatly overanalyzer her, which is BAD.
 
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yea thats what i was thinkin.. were or are you guys afraid to do some of the stuff on sosuave.com like being a bad boy compared to a goodboy..when it seems like the right thing to do is be good. but as it says on here. its not. lol. anyone afraid of that? i am. but i guess i just have to do it and yea?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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first off, read the bible.

It aint about being good or bad. Go read Jariels post in the tips section. To many people come on here and dont read the bible. Truth is the forum is filled with advice that goes against both the bible and common sense. It really seems that many people on here have never actually read or tried to apply the teachings of the bible.

Secondly, analyzing isn't bad. Just make sure it is done in the context of reality and you are actually learning factual info from it. Everything is a learning experience with interpersonal relationship. Not everything is compatible with other relationships. To many people try to analyze like woman are mathematical. The truth is that in the dynamics of dating there are more variables than known equations.
 
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