first off, read the bible.
It aint about being good or bad. Go read Jariels post in the tips section. To many people come on here and dont read the bible. Truth is the forum is filled with advice that goes against both the bible and common sense. It really seems that many people on here have never actually read or tried to apply the teachings of the bible.
Secondly, analyzing isn't bad. Just make sure it is done in the context of reality and you are actually learning factual info from it. Everything is a learning experience with interpersonal relationship. Not everything is compatible with other relationships. To many people try to analyze like woman are mathematical. The truth is that in the dynamics of dating there are more variables than known equations.