Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
you are probably chasing them too much giving them the impression that no one wants you.. no one wants leftovers! you have to have a mindset that every girl wants you because you emit this energy and they feel it and go crazy. try this, if you see a hot girl, don't even look at her or supplicate to her, dont give her any attention. you will be surprised to see her walking around you.I.A.F.Y.B. said:You need to know when to quit and do it will your still ahead. Wasting your time chasing after a girl that isnt interested isnt worth it. I'm not saying give up easy. But, if your advances arent working after so many trys... Just move on. Its not good to force something that isnt ment to be.
Not just men, all people have this tendency. It's textbook. This is some of the basis of PUA material, to capitalize on this.DonGorgon said:all men do that..
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.