Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
you are probably chasing them too much giving them the impression that no one wants you.. no one wants leftovers! you have to have a mindset that every girl wants you because you emit this energy and they feel it and go crazy. try this, if you see a hot girl, don't even look at her or supplicate to her, dont give her any attention. you will be surprised to see her walking around you.I.A.F.Y.B. said:You need to know when to quit and do it will your still ahead. Wasting your time chasing after a girl that isnt interested isnt worth it. I'm not saying give up easy. But, if your advances arent working after so many trys... Just move on. Its not good to force something that isnt ment to be.
Not just men, all people have this tendency. It's textbook. This is some of the basis of PUA material, to capitalize on this.DonGorgon said:all men do that..
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.