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Does Anyone Else Hate Eating a Girl Out?

mrskinnypantz

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Yoo some girls are aggressive with this and they won’t suck your d1ck if you don’t eat.
I used to eat pvssy, not as much anymore but I like to do it sometimes . I used to make my bm squirt back to back in my mouth, she still hits me up on FB every now and then tryna get me back, that was YEARS Ago.
but I don’t eat much these days. It’s rare or sometimes. If I really like her.
it does put you in somewhat of a submissive role too , but only in the bedroom.
 

JayAce

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I don’t mind it if a woman takes care of herself down there.

I’ve gone down on a couple who didn’t and it was dreadful. I just about gagged
 

DonJuanjr

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I like to. I wonder about the experience some members claim, when they say fat girls smell more. I have not experienced this.
 

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I have done it but I'd rather not if I'm honest. It seems every time I have in the past I've
quickly developed a coldsore soon afterwards. It's only that and the change of seasons
that cause me to get them. I've been prone to coldsores since I was a small child.
 

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Used to when I was younger, not really all that much into it these days. After what I've seen come out of the vag., you'd be weary too. White stuff, green stuff, red stuff, gray stuff, black stuff, brown stuff... After a while, it just turns you off in doing it. I've offered my GF plenty of times it, but she says "you don't like it. You rinse with Listerine after the fact." Again, prob. due to the job, no issues or odors with her vag., I'm not into eating pus any more. She came every time orally, actually, I was/am pretty good at it. I've only gone down on a few females, as I wouldn't go down until after an STD panel test (you'd be surprised how fast one can get an STD/STI through licking the pus. Since females catch STD/STI's easier the dudes, larger area, much easier to pass back to dude by licking the pus area). They've all climaxed very well. However, again, just not my thing anymore.

Just this past week I had to swab for G-HSV and a variety of other STDs in a dude's throat in the ER. It's not a fun conversation with the patient. I know the talk is coming, as I've see this hundreds of times. So, either she's cheating or was never tested. Either way, if it's da herp (which it usually is), things do not end well. I recall one time a few years ago, the female was rushed into the ER with life threatening wounds. The dude beat the sh!t out of her because he had more than one STD/STI. Later, sadly, it came back as HIV.

 

derby1

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Every girl I've been with wanted to give BJs anyways, I've never wanted to even try eating any of them out.
what you have to remember is most women meet complete losers with with E.D due to watching porn.
99% of men are selfish and smash missionary with there semi hard on, from all the years of FAP, then go to sleep.

if you flip that chic like an alabama quarter pounder, airborn 69 her if shes petite, slam your tongue in her coochie, like your eating chicken wings with barbecue sauce. then let her ride you, and instruct her to twerk on your D. you will be KING
 

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I used too in my 20s, but I realized I was doing it not because I wanted to but because I thought it was the correct thing to do.

Now I never do it. And my refusal to not do it has never effected my relationships. Most women don’t care nor mention it. But if it’s a serious LTR, I would probably change my mind.
 

Fruitbat

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How can you not??

what do you do? Just thrust?

sex life should be a lot of variety. Only real demand is she’s clean. Even then I don’t care.

without oral…you guys just stick it in?

I would get super bored if the only thing on the menu was humping.
Do I enjoy eating a girl? A bit. I mean, it beats watching adverts.
it justifies getting sucked off. It gives you more leeway in indulging yourself.

it’s not like my most loved activity but man, for the sake of your sex life it must be included.
 

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In my case, it depends on the girl. On some girls I like to do it, on others not so much. But generally speaking they all tend to enjoy it
 

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All I know,, is after I know a girl is not being passed around. The normal process is foreplay, then eat the taco like
A tripple scoop ice cream and get it all over you. Then she gets to go for a ride. After that, in time, a 2nd round.
(of ride). Done properly you'll never get rid of her "not that I'd want to" after that.. UNTIL one day she thinks she
Found someone better.

It's never crossed my mind not to enjoy one of life's great pleasures.
 

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All I know,, is after I know a girl is not being passed around. The normal process is foreplay, then eat the taco like
A tripple scoop ice cream and get it all over you. Then she gets to go for a ride. After that, in time, a 2nd round.
(of ride). Done properly you'll never get rid of her "not that I'd want to" after that.. UNTIL one day she thinks she
Found someone better.

It's never crossed my mind not to enjoy one of life's great pleasures.
How are you determining whether she is being "passed around" or not?
 

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Normally when she's hanging around with me often. I know where your going with that, no man ever really knows.
 

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Normally when she's hanging around with me often. I know where your going with that, no man ever really knows.
If you know the groups and the history you can figure out their patterns. People have a tendancy to like to do what they like to do, and will repeat that pattern for large stretches of years at a time. Of course they can change a pattern, it just doesn't happen over night.

One that we hate in the "manosphere" is one who was free and liked having "rotations" or being "passed around" for many years, from late teens to almost 30. Then they develop a baby rabies and want a husband to fulfill those desires. Never mind that for the last 10 years she acted in a manner that is her true desires, with men she truly desires. Now for her to switch 180 degrees after so long and convince herself to desire a man she would've never desired before. She wants this more loyal, more conservative and more reliable man who doesn't really turn her on to come in for baby making and "husband" duties after a decade of decadence.

After the marriage and after the allotted number of children drops, for "some reason" her sex drive goes belly up, ITS GONE ( for him ). He now has the option of living the rest of his life as a "cuck" if he does not step outside of the relationship.

She thinks she lost desire, and later learns after cucking her man, that strangely her old desire fires right up, around other men. She resists for a while, but then her mind makes up a bunch of excuses for her to get away with. So now the husband who has been denied sex for a long time, gets to emotionally support her and financial assistance while she gallavants with other men. They can have sex when they want it, they pump and dump her and she blissfully goes home after encounters knowing her husband still loves her.

This is the life of tens of millions of men in this country alone and they make excuses about being "responsible" and "taking care of their family". Did he realize that it meant he would be supporting an active cheater and she would not have a sexlife with him?
 

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If you truly love and lust for women and everything that is sexy about a really beautiful woman's body, I can't understand why a man would not want to go down or her or be grossed out about doing it. You swap fluids with a woman when you kiss her. This really isn't any different. But hey, to each his own.

I love going down on women, but I save it for women who I feel are clean, safe, and who I find extremely attractive (HB8+). I won't do it for a while after starting to date a woman and I would never do it with a one night stand. She also has to go down on me before I go down on her, be submissive, and do what I ask her. Any woman who told me to go down on her yet refused to go down on me first would get kicked right out of bed. I also won't go down on a woman if she tells me to - it has to be my idea and my initiation; I am the leader in bed. And if I detect anything other than a great smelling vag, I'm not going to do it.
 

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I've never wanted to do it and it honestly seems really disgusting to me, but every girl I've dated wanted me to do it. It also feels like if i do it, it would make me submissive to her.

Am I the only one who doesn't like the idea of eating a girl out?
My ex-wife pushed me with this allot. Its just gross. I eventually caved in and did that with her, trying to stick my tongue into her **** or labia, etc... after she just showered there and grimaced a bit while doing it. Somethings look good with porn when OTHER guys are doing that to a lady....not myself to my ex-wife. However, my ex-wife rewarded me by letting me face-fvck afterwards. It was the first and last time I ever face fvcked any woman. How guys not only do that but even eat out a girl's a$$...again, some things are just better left to porn. I'd rather escortcel for oral if I'm expected to give oral back to a girl if she gives oral to me. That is how much I'm disgusted by the idea of doing something like that ever again.
 
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Jor-El

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Surely like anything sexual,its horses for courses.if it wets your whistle,do it,if not,dont. Although,as @Fruitbat alluded to,if you want your d**k sucking,its easier if you are prepared to return the favour...you may have to grin and bear it
 
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