"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Does anybody live in Phoenix AZ?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A friend of mine moved out there, she loves it.

Beautiful skies, the desert is something to see, and cactuses. She is constantly taking pictures.
 
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An old boss of mine lives there. He could not stop praising it. Tons of parties, Hors, ASU has the hottest girls in the country, cops don't give a crap about the parties. He said there are tons of hotties at the community colleges too. I can imagine not suffering from allergies out there.
 
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For a place that isn't part of the entertainment industry - there is a good amount of very attractive girls.

Lot's of hot blondes and latin girls.

In case someone didn't mention it: it's HOT.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My cousin told me it's just like what you see in the movies, and the sky is endless, meaning, no hills or trees block the view... the sky goes on forever is the way he describes it.

I'm to chicken to go out there... I may fall in love with it and want to stay, lol... I'm a farm boy from NY ,so Arizona would be a complete culture shock to me... lol.

Are you thinking of moving there?
 
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EricInTheHouse said:
My cousin told me it's just like what you see in the movies, and the sky is endless, meaning, no hills or trees block the view... the sky goes on forever is the way he describes it.

I'm to chicken to go out there... I may fall in love with it and want to stay, lol... I'm a farm boy from NY ,so Arizona would be a complete culture shock to me... lol.

Are you thinking of moving there?
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Yes, either there or San Diego.
 
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Grew up there. Wish I never left.
 
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