"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Does anybody live in Phoenix AZ?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A friend of mine moved out there, she loves it.

Beautiful skies, the desert is something to see, and cactuses. She is constantly taking pictures.
 
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An old boss of mine lives there. He could not stop praising it. Tons of parties, Hors, ASU has the hottest girls in the country, cops don't give a crap about the parties. He said there are tons of hotties at the community colleges too. I can imagine not suffering from allergies out there.
 
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For a place that isn't part of the entertainment industry - there is a good amount of very attractive girls.

Lot's of hot blondes and latin girls.

In case someone didn't mention it: it's HOT.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My cousin told me it's just like what you see in the movies, and the sky is endless, meaning, no hills or trees block the view... the sky goes on forever is the way he describes it.

I'm to chicken to go out there... I may fall in love with it and want to stay, lol... I'm a farm boy from NY ,so Arizona would be a complete culture shock to me... lol.

Are you thinking of moving there?
 
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EricInTheHouse said:
My cousin told me it's just like what you see in the movies, and the sky is endless, meaning, no hills or trees block the view... the sky goes on forever is the way he describes it.

I'm to chicken to go out there... I may fall in love with it and want to stay, lol... I'm a farm boy from NY ,so Arizona would be a complete culture shock to me... lol.

Are you thinking of moving there?
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Yes, either there or San Diego.
 
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Grew up there. Wish I never left.
 
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