Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Does anybody in this forum know anything?

sosocool

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I asked if ****y attitude works to attract girls if you're good looking or if it just makes you look like a jerk.

Never mind

I shouldn't have bother with this "Don Juan" forum.... there are never any real Don Juans with good advice here anyway.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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horaholic

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Maybe you should try asking relevant questions. You're question makes no sense.

How about this: You look like a jerk, if you act like a jerk, no matter what you look like. Not that this is even a bad thing.

If they think you are a jerk, than you aren't really using C+F. What do you not understand? How can a chick think you are a jerk, if she's laughing? I dont think you are grasping the concept of C+F, so dont blame us cuz you're too lazy to read the DJ bible.
 

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its actually a good question,

yes ****y funny can work on HOT girls or girls that percieve themselves to be hot if you are good looking.

C/F gives the girl an emotional response through teasing,

if the girl is average or likes you already she will think u are a jerk for not recepricating those feelings and even worse punishing her. so you dont want to do it on them

play it by ear, if you are good looking and low on time in field, id just open with cheeky funny or direct and then make small talk and escalating. if she is rude or cheeky then u can be c+f back

hope that helps
 

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sosocool said:
I asked if ****y attitude works to attract girls if you're good looking or if it just makes you look like a jerk.
It doesn't matter if you're a good looking guy. Period. Read the bible.
 

Alle_Gory

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sosocool said:
I asked if ****y attitude works to attract girls if you're good looking or if it just makes you look like a jerk.

Never mind

I shouldn't have bother with this "Don Juan" forum.... there are never any real Don Juans with good advice here anyway.
Then find a forum that caters to your answers. There's lots of people that can give you bullsh*t, not here usually.


****y attitude by itself doesn't do anything. It's a mix of things. Girls aren't like a videogame or a computer that takes a simple input and gives an output every time. If you do Y you always get X. They're complicated just like you, but feminine and soft. Does a ****y attitude work on you if a chick does it?

Stupid question, I know.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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