"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Does anybody in this forum know anything?

sosocool

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I asked if ****y attitude works to attract girls if you're good looking or if it just makes you look like a jerk.

Never mind

I shouldn't have bother with this "Don Juan" forum.... there are never any real Don Juans with good advice here anyway.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Maybe you should try asking relevant questions. You're question makes no sense.

How about this: You look like a jerk, if you act like a jerk, no matter what you look like. Not that this is even a bad thing.

If they think you are a jerk, than you aren't really using C+F. What do you not understand? How can a chick think you are a jerk, if she's laughing? I dont think you are grasping the concept of C+F, so dont blame us cuz you're too lazy to read the DJ bible.
 

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its actually a good question,

yes ****y funny can work on HOT girls or girls that percieve themselves to be hot if you are good looking.

C/F gives the girl an emotional response through teasing,

if the girl is average or likes you already she will think u are a jerk for not recepricating those feelings and even worse punishing her. so you dont want to do it on them

play it by ear, if you are good looking and low on time in field, id just open with cheeky funny or direct and then make small talk and escalating. if she is rude or cheeky then u can be c+f back

hope that helps
 

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sosocool said:
I asked if ****y attitude works to attract girls if you're good looking or if it just makes you look like a jerk.
It doesn't matter if you're a good looking guy. Period. Read the bible.
 

Alle_Gory

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sosocool said:
I asked if ****y attitude works to attract girls if you're good looking or if it just makes you look like a jerk.

Never mind

I shouldn't have bother with this "Don Juan" forum.... there are never any real Don Juans with good advice here anyway.
Then find a forum that caters to your answers. There's lots of people that can give you bullsh*t, not here usually.


****y attitude by itself doesn't do anything. It's a mix of things. Girls aren't like a videogame or a computer that takes a simple input and gives an output every time. If you do Y you always get X. They're complicated just like you, but feminine and soft. Does a ****y attitude work on you if a chick does it?

Stupid question, I know.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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