"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Does anybody here completely shaved his head? how does it feel?

Who Dares Win

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Long story short my hair line is no different than Bruce Willis in the movie Hudson hawk PICTURE except that in the middle part are not that thick.

If I keep them long enough it seems my head is full yet it requires a lot of work in comb and a lot of stress anytime I take away my shirt,hat.

So Im starting to consider to completely shave vin diesel style, the only concern I have is that Im not used to see myself shaved like and I dont know how I may look like in general.

Second what kind of feedback I may get from people, not only girls but also in work places etc, you see many guys after shaved looks more manly while others look funny (not in the good way).
Example: cool - not cool

Anybody has anything to say about it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Never went bald but i can only imagine it would be helpful.
 

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I've long considered taking the plunge but have not gone all the way yet.

From what I hear, it attracts younger women but turns off older women (40s+). Now whether this is true I don't know.

Either way, if you have a nice shaped head it's definitely worth considering. Check out the comment sections on Yul Brynner videos sometime, LOL. Many girls think it's sexy.
 

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I have done, you'll notice a different type of woman is after you since it gives out a more aggressive first impression.

Less people want to fight you too - skinhead look kinda puts them off from the start lol
I don't shave it anymore though.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Purefilth and Mauser nailed it. Those have been my experiences with it, as well.
 

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Espi said:
Not true in my case. It's really a matter of the woman's taste. Not all women like my shaved head, but many do like it. Older, younger, etc.
Good to know, thanks.

Most men in my family are bald, so come my 30s or 40s I'm probably doomed, LOL
 

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Ok we are somehow inclined to say that some women like ti while others not, what about reaction apart the dating life?

I mean what about work place, meetings, dealing with other men etc?
 

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If you have a manly face, go for it. If you don't, don't do it. You'll look like a cancer patient.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I did it once when I was 22 and it felt amazing. Like literally I couldn't stop touching my head for a week because it was so sensitive, in a good way. I still remember the feeling of putting my head down on my pillow the first night I'd done it. It was incredible.

But I also grew a goatee, because if you're skinny like I am and you shave your head you just look like a cancer victim. Not sure how a goatee would go over these days but back in the mid-90s it was fine.

Though friends told me I looked "a lot tougher." If you're a children's doctor or a greeter at Walmart or something that might not be the look you're going for.
 
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Who Dares Win said:
Ok we are somehow inclined to say that some women like ti while others not, what about reaction apart the dating life?

I mean what about work place, meetings, dealing with other men etc?
The only strangers that comment on my head are old people, and they only do it if I'm nice to them. That says something, because it's obvious to everyone.

It doesn't hurt that a lot of military, law-enforcement and fighters all shave their heads.
 

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I definitely attract a lot more women without my hair than when I had it.

alpha_ash said:
I bet it feels cold!
You get used to that fast, after a while you hardly even notice unless it's a really windy day and on the plus side if you get caught in the rain you don't have any hair to dry. At most you might need to wear a hat when the weather gets extreme but you probably would be wearing one anyway in those conditions if you had hair.
 

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It's just hair, man, it comes back. Do it now in the winter so if you hate it you can cover it up with a hat or beanie. I say it'll look a lot better than having a little tuft in the middle of yer noggin like a bush in the middle of a dead lawn. Go for it. Bald guys have badassery rights.
 
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