"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does anybody here completely shaved his head? how does it feel?

Who Dares Win

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Long story short my hair line is no different than Bruce Willis in the movie Hudson hawk PICTURE except that in the middle part are not that thick.

If I keep them long enough it seems my head is full yet it requires a lot of work in comb and a lot of stress anytime I take away my shirt,hat.

So Im starting to consider to completely shave vin diesel style, the only concern I have is that Im not used to see myself shaved like and I dont know how I may look like in general.

Second what kind of feedback I may get from people, not only girls but also in work places etc, you see many guys after shaved looks more manly while others look funny (not in the good way).
Example: cool - not cool

Anybody has anything to say about it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Kbomb

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Never went bald but i can only imagine it would be helpful.
 

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I've long considered taking the plunge but have not gone all the way yet.

From what I hear, it attracts younger women but turns off older women (40s+). Now whether this is true I don't know.

Either way, if you have a nice shaped head it's definitely worth considering. Check out the comment sections on Yul Brynner videos sometime, LOL. Many girls think it's sexy.
 

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I have done, you'll notice a different type of woman is after you since it gives out a more aggressive first impression.

Less people want to fight you too - skinhead look kinda puts them off from the start lol
I don't shave it anymore though.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Purefilth and Mauser nailed it. Those have been my experiences with it, as well.
 

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Espi said:
Not true in my case. It's really a matter of the woman's taste. Not all women like my shaved head, but many do like it. Older, younger, etc.
Good to know, thanks.

Most men in my family are bald, so come my 30s or 40s I'm probably doomed, LOL
 

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Ok we are somehow inclined to say that some women like ti while others not, what about reaction apart the dating life?

I mean what about work place, meetings, dealing with other men etc?
 

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If you have a manly face, go for it. If you don't, don't do it. You'll look like a cancer patient.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I did it once when I was 22 and it felt amazing. Like literally I couldn't stop touching my head for a week because it was so sensitive, in a good way. I still remember the feeling of putting my head down on my pillow the first night I'd done it. It was incredible.

But I also grew a goatee, because if you're skinny like I am and you shave your head you just look like a cancer victim. Not sure how a goatee would go over these days but back in the mid-90s it was fine.

Though friends told me I looked "a lot tougher." If you're a children's doctor or a greeter at Walmart or something that might not be the look you're going for.
 
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Who Dares Win said:
Ok we are somehow inclined to say that some women like ti while others not, what about reaction apart the dating life?

I mean what about work place, meetings, dealing with other men etc?
The only strangers that comment on my head are old people, and they only do it if I'm nice to them. That says something, because it's obvious to everyone.

It doesn't hurt that a lot of military, law-enforcement and fighters all shave their heads.
 

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I definitely attract a lot more women without my hair than when I had it.

alpha_ash said:
I bet it feels cold!
You get used to that fast, after a while you hardly even notice unless it's a really windy day and on the plus side if you get caught in the rain you don't have any hair to dry. At most you might need to wear a hat when the weather gets extreme but you probably would be wearing one anyway in those conditions if you had hair.
 

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It's just hair, man, it comes back. Do it now in the winter so if you hate it you can cover it up with a hat or beanie. I say it'll look a lot better than having a little tuft in the middle of yer noggin like a bush in the middle of a dead lawn. Go for it. Bald guys have badassery rights.
 
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