"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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does accquaintance = friend zone

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say i have known a girl for about a year, from college, hanged out on occasions as a group, but never really talked to each other.

does this put her in the friend zone? or should i give it a shot?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KillaCam

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She's a women. Therefore she's a target.

Go for it.
 

Cod3r

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hanged out on occasions as a group, but never really talked to each other.
Nope, you're good as long as you've had limited one on one exposure to her....


Also, if you're chumped out in the group alot and she notices your chances are diminished. If you've got a little respect and not hella wierd, should be a pretty easy approach... start conversing in the group and then isolate out the group, don't approach 1:1 because that's not how she knows you... approach from where the comfort already is... good luck


-Cod3r
 

everywomanshero

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Hot Women get with guys who:

Have criminal records and live in a dump
Live in houses with no air
Have slept with their best friends
Are parapalegic
Are butt-ass ugly
Who are fat
Who live with their parents
who are brothers of the guy married to her sister
etc

They didn';t get with them because of these things usually of course, but that it just didn't stop them. Women (even hot, seemingly clean ones) do some really disgusting things. All of those above are real-life examples off the top of my head. The point of all this is there is no one in the world who can predict with 100% accuracy what is going to happen with a woman and selection for all accounts.
 
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