"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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does accquaintance = friend zone

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say i have known a girl for about a year, from college, hanged out on occasions as a group, but never really talked to each other.

does this put her in the friend zone? or should i give it a shot?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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KillaCam

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She's a women. Therefore she's a target.

Go for it.
 

Cod3r

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hanged out on occasions as a group, but never really talked to each other.
Nope, you're good as long as you've had limited one on one exposure to her....


Also, if you're chumped out in the group alot and she notices your chances are diminished. If you've got a little respect and not hella wierd, should be a pretty easy approach... start conversing in the group and then isolate out the group, don't approach 1:1 because that's not how she knows you... approach from where the comfort already is... good luck


-Cod3r
 

everywomanshero

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Hot Women get with guys who:

Have criminal records and live in a dump
Live in houses with no air
Have slept with their best friends
Are parapalegic
Are butt-ass ugly
Who are fat
Who live with their parents
who are brothers of the guy married to her sister
etc

They didn';t get with them because of these things usually of course, but that it just didn't stop them. Women (even hot, seemingly clean ones) do some really disgusting things. All of those above are real-life examples off the top of my head. The point of all this is there is no one in the world who can predict with 100% accuracy what is going to happen with a woman and selection for all accounts.
 
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