"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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does accquaintance = friend zone

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say i have known a girl for about a year, from college, hanged out on occasions as a group, but never really talked to each other.

does this put her in the friend zone? or should i give it a shot?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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KillaCam

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She's a women. Therefore she's a target.

Go for it.
 

Cod3r

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hanged out on occasions as a group, but never really talked to each other.
Nope, you're good as long as you've had limited one on one exposure to her....


Also, if you're chumped out in the group alot and she notices your chances are diminished. If you've got a little respect and not hella wierd, should be a pretty easy approach... start conversing in the group and then isolate out the group, don't approach 1:1 because that's not how she knows you... approach from where the comfort already is... good luck


-Cod3r
 

everywomanshero

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Hot Women get with guys who:

Have criminal records and live in a dump
Live in houses with no air
Have slept with their best friends
Are parapalegic
Are butt-ass ugly
Who are fat
Who live with their parents
who are brothers of the guy married to her sister
etc

They didn';t get with them because of these things usually of course, but that it just didn't stop them. Women (even hot, seemingly clean ones) do some really disgusting things. All of those above are real-life examples off the top of my head. The point of all this is there is no one in the world who can predict with 100% accuracy what is going to happen with a woman and selection for all accounts.
 
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