"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Does Absense Make The Heart Grow Fonder.??

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Does absence make the heart grow fonder.

Any Thoughts.

For me I suppose initially this is true you miss someone increasingly with time spent apart. However at a certain point there starts to be in economic terms, diminishing returns. It becomes an inverse relationship, up until the point where you have absolutely no emotions left for the other person.

And is this the same principal as no contact???
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DonGorgon said:
Only if you have reach the second stage of attraction form her... If you have not, then Absense gives other men the opportunity they have been waiting for...
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Hit the nail on the head. Even if you have reached this stage of attraction, long time apart gives much time for rethinking and curiosity. So I don't know if it's a woman you are fond of that you are talking about, but don't be surprised if that long time apart may have changed things.
 
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Suuuure.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Then what the hell are ganji games for? Sometimes the advice on this board is so contradictory. Time apart works when a girl breaks up with you, because it "gives her the gift of missing you", but now you morons say it changes things for the worse?

Make up your damn minds.
 
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dalton said:
Does absence make the heart grow fonder.
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Sayings don't mean sh1t.

"Out of sight, out of mind." Remember that one too?
 
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Tell you what......how bout this...let me know where you live...you be absent from your girl for two weeks and let me mack on her......$1000 says she be suckin on my dyck and i'll be hittin it doggie style after day 4
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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