Does a straight no bull**** profile in online dating works?

[Who Dares Win]

Lets say you dont bother to fill your profile with lies or tricks, you go straight to the point saying you're there looking for fun with no string attached.

Do you believe it works? Do you believe it works only if you're very hot or interesting?

 

[logicallefty]

A short and sweet profile has worked best for me, and it MUST have some humor in it. One thing I have used and got good feed back on, among many things, is "Don't worry I won't stalk you or write bad stuff about you on the bathroom wall at my favorite bar if it doesn't work out between us.. . And please don't write my number 'for a good time call Lefty' if it does! "

 

[l e g e n d a r y]

for online dating, your photos are 95% and profile info is 5% of the equation

 

[l e g e n d a r y]

for getting initial replies from women, then it's all about your "conversation" skills while messaging back and forth. I manage online dating accounts for guys and I give a money back guarantee that I will get results, so I definitely follow a proven strategy at this point. Here's a blog post I wrote with some great online dating tips: http://www.prodatingassistant.com/10-Reasons-You-Suck-At-Online-Dating.php

 

[l e g e n d a r y]

I personally think that conversation skills are best left for the face to face meeting. I personally always advise that guys invite them out on the very first email. No back and forth. save that for the actual face to face drink.

If a guy has seriously solid photos, then going for meetup on first message can work.. also I'd say that is more doable in bigger cities like NYC, etc. For guys with photos that are less than amazing, we've found the best ratio of time invested vs results is a FEW messages back and forth, like 3 or 4 messages, then close for number/ get together. I also feel that if you're only getting girls that give the number on first message, you're filtering out some of the higher quality women that need a little more conversation before giving up the number.

 

[l e g e n d a r y]

I agree with the photos aspect. Guys with eye-catching photos can get away with more. The good news is, you don't have to be superfit or goodlooking to have such photos. Just put more work, time, even money into your photos than the avg. guy (see the theme here guys?) Photos are huge. They allow us to project an image--which is exactly what the chicks do.

No reason ever to wait to invite them though. My best initial email compliments their sexiest-looking photo then invites them for a drink or two--on a specific day and at a specific place and time. I believe that "Quality" is impossible to judge in the deep early phases of courtship. But the women I meet (and I've met a LOT via online) are generally independent, impulsive, and very interested in sex. I look upon these types as admirable. They are today's conquest and the wives and moms of the future. All in one. It stays with them their entire lives. Women--and people in general--are often complex, and contradictory. I know I am.

Yeah you made a great point I neglected to mention.. a guy doesn't have to be AMAZING looking to have AMAZING photos. There is a big difference. Any guy can express that his lifestyle is social, fun, and awesome to be a part of through photos. If you are fit, dress well, great looking, then you're life will be alittle easier, but I have clients that are legit model looking guys (no homo lol) yet had horrible boring photos and no skills at closing for meetups, etc.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I personally think that conversation skills are best left for the face to face meeting. I personally always advise that guys invite them out on the very first email. No back and forth. My advice is to save that for the actual face to face drink..

That certainly may be the best advice for most guys. But for what it's worth, I do the opposite. I exchange a lot of messages with girls right away, and I use that to filter out the ones who seem the least interested in sex. Written communication is my strong point, and I will typically have a girl talking to me about sex before we have met. With other girls, they just need to exchange a lot of mundane text messages in order to be comfortable enough to fvck on the first date.

 

[l e g e n d a r y]

Helluva good way to make a living. You're doing great work for the guys who are so deeply brainwashed and filtered. A fit, well-dressed guy with zero confidence is detested and abhorred by women. They WANT the guys who can at least put their nuts out. Strong open direct DJ game, harnessed skillfully, can change a man's perception of himself and women.

Thanks man! Yeah me and my team are definitely passionate about helping our clients out, its hugely rewarding when you get them results they previously thought were impossible. We often go above and beyond what they pay for and spend extra time explaining to them how to text, set up dates with high chances of success, and overall get the right mindset.. an abundance mindset instead of a scarcity, fear based one. The link to my site is in my signature if you're curious enough to check it out