Does a man's SMV decrease if he gets married?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Mesoherny

Banned

Jan 4, 2019

There are men who claim and shame a man who gets married saying his SMV goes down because then he lets himself go. Other men say their SMV goes up because they are now a taken man and women want what they cant have.

Which one is correct?

I do not think either is correct so long as you stay in swimmer shape, look your best, groom and dress in style, and are mentally sound with good earning ability.

Why do married men get shamed with saying their SMV decreases?

BTW Im not married but will get married eventually to a better gf than i have now.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.