Does a man's SMV decrease if he gets married?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Mesoherny

Banned

Jan 4, 2019

There are men who claim and shame a man who gets married saying his SMV goes down because then he lets himself go. Other men say their SMV goes up because they are now a taken man and women want what they cant have.

Which one is correct?

I do not think either is correct so long as you stay in swimmer shape, look your best, groom and dress in style, and are mentally sound with good earning ability.

Why do married men get shamed with saying their SMV decreases?

BTW Im not married but will get married eventually to a better gf than i have now.

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.