Does a Don Juan ever call twice?

[My Name is Nobody]

So you get a girls #, wait a couple days, call and get the V/M. Leave a message with your number. Then she emails and gives some lame excuse about not having her cell on her, and she tells YOU to call her again.

I am refusing to call twice. She should return the call herself. Am I right?

 

[WC2]

If a girl can't call you and emails you instead, she most likely isn't interested. What you do is totally up to you and who you are, but I would just leave it be and move on.

 

[Fred Da Head]

I don't like these hard "don't ever call twice"-type rules. Yes, it's likely she isn't interested and, yes, she should have returned the call. However, what are you going to lose by calling a second time? I'm not advocating calling 4874218753 times and leaving messages on her voicemail all the time, but saying you can't call twice is like saying you shouldn't approach women who aren't in the perfect textbook situation to be approached.

 

[Scought]

If she doesn't have her cell on her, how does she know you called?

hmmm..............

Actually, I am going through this same situation. This woman I met out last weekend, we chatted on the phone once, met up again (in a group to watch the NCAA tournament) and I called her again last night.

So, we have kicked it once already, so it's not like we haven't met up after the initial number exchange. (Personally, I think getting to date 1 is the hardest after meeting a girl out and about. Once you can get her on a date, it should be good to go).

Anyway, so we have already done something together, but I called to set up the next one, and I don't think I'll call her back. She already knows me and what I am about, so there is no need for flakiness. And, quite frankly, I can't make her or convince her to want to hang out. It's a (to use a David D quote) gut-level attraction. Either she has it or she doesn't. In my situation I doubt calling again is really going to do much. However, I could give it one more shot, because what's one more no-call back vs. a complete nexting? In the end, there is no communication. Why not go down with one more shot?

I am torn between the two ideas.

To paraphrase: Perhaps call twice if you have yet to hang out since the first time you got the number, after you have hung out a few times, I think not returning a call speaks for itself.

 

[Mindtrust]

I would give this one the benefit of the doubt..

Give her a second call. If it turns out to be the same scenario as what happened the first time or anything simular, then it is a certain next.

Either way, you will know what this women's intentions are with you..

Just make sure you move on if she dont get in touch

Mindtrust

 

[The Shocker]

Hmm...my response would depend on the maturity level of the girl...if she's more mature, no-nonsense, then I'd go ahead and call. But with less mature girls (the majority of them) they'll subconsciously interpret this as AFC behavior, so I would just send a quick email saying you have my number, xxx-xxxx and leave it at that.

 

[Kev07]

dont answer her email, it's the ultimate shvt test. she has your #, let her call you. if she asks why you didnt answer your email, tell her you dont check itm uch

 

[My Name is Nobody]

I replied to her email. I told her I'll give her another call MAYBE.

Ofcourse I won't.

Why should I when I have an excel spreadsheet full of other girls names and numbers? Well not really that many but I do have other girls I can call.

I refuse to put myself back out on a limb and get her voice mail again when she knows damn well I called.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

I love when girls do stupid sh1t like this. There was this one girl I've phoned before. Sometimes she wouldn't answer and then she would reply to my phone call by sending me a message on msn messenger. I promptly deleted her number from my cell phone.

 

[My Name is Nobody]

I love when girls do stupid sh1t like this. There was this one girl I've phoned before. Sometimes she wouldn't answer and then she would reply to my phone call by sending me a message on msn messenger. I promptly deleted her number from my cell phone.

Well I guess they are used to AFC's who bow down and take orders and call them whenever the girl commands them to. And every 5 minutes after that.

I however will be no part of it.