"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does a DJ tan?

RazorAzoth

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What does a DJ do to get a nice tan? Lay out in the sun and risk skin cancer or go to a tanning bed...and risk skin cancer? Or use the dreaded tan in a can produdcts?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WhitePimp

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Lay out in the sun. Remember, DJ's take sh!t from nobody and that INCLUDES the sun!
 

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If you ever workout in the sun or do yard work, just take of your shirt. I do a lot of bike riding so one day a week I ride without my shirt off for about 30 minutes to get a nice little tan. I only do this so I do not have a farmers tan.

If you burn at all spend less time outdoors. Burning leads to bad things, such as early signs of aging. Wrinkles, age spots, etc...
 

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If you have a lot of moles, fair skin and blue or grey eyes avoid the sun and especially tanning from it as much as possible as if you fit the profile for this you are a prime candidate for skin cancer.

My dad was one hardcore SOB who scoffed at ever getting sick and had his shirt off all the time while outdoors but yep eventually the sun won and gave him skin cancer which he died from.

Now if you are a guy with smooth even nice looking skin you'll probably be alright tanning outdoors if you don't overdo it but if you are loaded with moles or have a few darker than usual ones I'd avoid doing this until you get them removed at the dermatologists office and even then you could still get skin cancer as I fully believe people with any pronounced moles are more likely candidates for growing this sh!t on them than other people with clear smooth skin.

I'm sure you know this already but dermatologists absolutely hate tanning as though it may make someone look better it is still skin damage whether its a light tan, medium tan or you get a tan and manage to burn yourself via sunburn.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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RazorAzoth

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I am a prime candiate for skin cancer, Kontroller.

Does anyone here use sunless tanning products? How well do they work?
 

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I go to pool parties all the time these days. I wear suntan lotion (Spf 30) but I still have a rich tan. Personally, being darker then I normally am turns out to be a good thing. I'm african american by name, but very light skinned because of my mixture, but when i tan I gain incredible favor from those around me. I'll never see a tanning bed or spray canister, natrually by being out and partying makes me darker.

I hate the reaction i get during the winter season when i'm not as tanned as I am currently but to each his own. There are some body and face types that look much better staying out of the sun. I'm not one of them but I have friends who are. A DJ knows what looks best on him as an indvidual just as girls know how much make up to wear depending on the look that they feel comfortable with.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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