"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Does a DJ tan?

RazorAzoth

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What does a DJ do to get a nice tan? Lay out in the sun and risk skin cancer or go to a tanning bed...and risk skin cancer? Or use the dreaded tan in a can produdcts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WhitePimp

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Lay out in the sun. Remember, DJ's take sh!t from nobody and that INCLUDES the sun!
 

Upside

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If you ever workout in the sun or do yard work, just take of your shirt. I do a lot of bike riding so one day a week I ride without my shirt off for about 30 minutes to get a nice little tan. I only do this so I do not have a farmers tan.

If you burn at all spend less time outdoors. Burning leads to bad things, such as early signs of aging. Wrinkles, age spots, etc...
 

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If you have a lot of moles, fair skin and blue or grey eyes avoid the sun and especially tanning from it as much as possible as if you fit the profile for this you are a prime candidate for skin cancer.

My dad was one hardcore SOB who scoffed at ever getting sick and had his shirt off all the time while outdoors but yep eventually the sun won and gave him skin cancer which he died from.

Now if you are a guy with smooth even nice looking skin you'll probably be alright tanning outdoors if you don't overdo it but if you are loaded with moles or have a few darker than usual ones I'd avoid doing this until you get them removed at the dermatologists office and even then you could still get skin cancer as I fully believe people with any pronounced moles are more likely candidates for growing this sh!t on them than other people with clear smooth skin.

I'm sure you know this already but dermatologists absolutely hate tanning as though it may make someone look better it is still skin damage whether its a light tan, medium tan or you get a tan and manage to burn yourself via sunburn.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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RazorAzoth

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I am a prime candiate for skin cancer, Kontroller.

Does anyone here use sunless tanning products? How well do they work?
 

PRMoon

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I go to pool parties all the time these days. I wear suntan lotion (Spf 30) but I still have a rich tan. Personally, being darker then I normally am turns out to be a good thing. I'm african american by name, but very light skinned because of my mixture, but when i tan I gain incredible favor from those around me. I'll never see a tanning bed or spray canister, natrually by being out and partying makes me darker.

I hate the reaction i get during the winter season when i'm not as tanned as I am currently but to each his own. There are some body and face types that look much better staying out of the sun. I'm not one of them but I have friends who are. A DJ knows what looks best on him as an indvidual just as girls know how much make up to wear depending on the look that they feel comfortable with.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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