"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Does a DJ stay home to help mom and siblings?

_sideways_

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Dad passed away. Mom works, brother works part time, we live in a high rent area. I was stepping in and doing what needs to be done.
Now I have a chance to have my own place.
Being a care taker and provider has a new meaning when its people you love. When you see your face in their faces.

Having a bachelor pad vs. Home life?
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PokerStar

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taking control of your life and taking care of others is to me a DJ.

I beleive that women would find that more attractive that you take care of your family.
 

ubercat

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Agree. If you're a good man sooner or later you ll run into a good woman. Is it about finances only?
 

beforeimgone

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Dad passed away. Mom works, brother works part time, we live in a high rent area. I was stepping in and doing what needs to be done.
Now I have a chance to have my own place.
Being a care taker and provider has a new meaning when its people you love. When you see your face in their faces.

Having a bachelor pad vs. Home life?
And all the other things that come with
Always remember your mom will bvtch you out just like any other female of you let them. The only thing different about moms is they'll give you more chances to fvck up.

Do what you want.
 

ZTIME

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Do what is needed and be rewarded for it.

Did your mom post on a forum when you were born to ask if she should take care of you?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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jboyd5

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I don't think taking care of family has anything to do with being a dj. It is just the right thing to do.
 

wifehunter

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be thankful that you have a home and a family...(says the guy who lives in his car)
 

El Payaso

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Dad passed away. Mom works, brother works part time, we live in a high rent area. I was stepping in and doing what needs to be done.
Now I have a chance to have my own place.
Being a care taker and provider has a new meaning when its people you love. When you see your face in their faces.

Having a bachelor pad vs. Home life?
And all the other things that come with
Why doesn't the family move to a place with cheaper rent?
 

Thorninmyside

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Forging ahead with your own life doesn't mean abandoning your family but it's important to be there for them too.

If your mom needs the lawn mowed, do that first then go out on a date and hook up with girls. There's time to be a man and a player. Giving back to our family is a privilege for having a good one.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Desdinova

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You can have your own place AND help out your family. Your mom is a grown woman and should be able to take care of many of her own needs. Help out where help is needed. If she needs things moved or wants to purchase something large, that's where you'll come in. Death in the family also brings a lot of burden in itself. You'll need to deal with paperwork and unneeded possessions. That's a good place to help as well.

Women will admire a man who takes care of his family, but won't respect a man who's sex chamber is in the same residence as his mother.
 
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