"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Does a DJ cheat?

Nakmuay_Juan

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This is a topic that has become of recent relevance to me and I would like to hear other’s perspectives. Veteran DJ’s do you think it’s okay to cheat? Personally, I am against cheating as I like to put myself in other’s shoes and feel it’s unacceptable. I’ve been cheated on recently and lately I’ve been wondering if it’s better to pursue your desires and rather than remain faithful.

Is morality just another AFC projection?..
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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expos

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Being a DJ is being a man.

I think when you've lost interest in someone, it's important to tell them face to face and cut ties so you can pursue what you really want...even if it's someone else.

Think of the term "cheating". Not a real noble trait is it? Think of the kid who cuts corners in a school yard race, or a professional athlete who dopes to win cycling events. Do you hold these people in high regard?

I hate cheaters.
 

fuko2007

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Part of being a man is having values. I had core values drilled into my head for a while. Honor, Courage, Commitment, And Integrity. Along with Humility and faith. Those are core values everyone should live by. And i believe Integrity and Commitment are the two you are questioning. Integrity is having the ability to do what is right even when nobody is looking or might find out. And Commitment im sure you can figuer out. With that said i frown upon chaeting. And if one partner cheats on another so the other one does it back is still not right. An eye for an eye in that case does nothing. So my stance is no, a real man does not cheat.
 

disgustipated

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Or is all this don't cheat , be a man, be faithful business just the female imperative keeping men in check? I don't know the answer to.this question because I'm no dj yet. But when I think of a dj, he is a guy that fuucks many women at once because he wants to. That's not necessarily cheating though if he never agrees to exclusivity.
 

CaliMan007

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If you're in a committed exclusive relationship, then no, a DJ does not cheat as a DJ is all about being a man who possesses solid core values.

If you're just dating or playing the field then it isn't cheating.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nakmuay_Juan

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I thank you all for your posts. I agree, as I feel a DJ is a man with a code and follows that code regardless of the actions of others.
 
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