"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Does a DJ cheat?

Nakmuay_Juan

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This is a topic that has become of recent relevance to me and I would like to hear other’s perspectives. Veteran DJ’s do you think it’s okay to cheat? Personally, I am against cheating as I like to put myself in other’s shoes and feel it’s unacceptable. I’ve been cheated on recently and lately I’ve been wondering if it’s better to pursue your desires and rather than remain faithful.

Is morality just another AFC projection?..
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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expos

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Being a DJ is being a man.

I think when you've lost interest in someone, it's important to tell them face to face and cut ties so you can pursue what you really want...even if it's someone else.

Think of the term "cheating". Not a real noble trait is it? Think of the kid who cuts corners in a school yard race, or a professional athlete who dopes to win cycling events. Do you hold these people in high regard?

I hate cheaters.
 

fuko2007

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Part of being a man is having values. I had core values drilled into my head for a while. Honor, Courage, Commitment, And Integrity. Along with Humility and faith. Those are core values everyone should live by. And i believe Integrity and Commitment are the two you are questioning. Integrity is having the ability to do what is right even when nobody is looking or might find out. And Commitment im sure you can figuer out. With that said i frown upon chaeting. And if one partner cheats on another so the other one does it back is still not right. An eye for an eye in that case does nothing. So my stance is no, a real man does not cheat.
 

disgustipated

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Or is all this don't cheat , be a man, be faithful business just the female imperative keeping men in check? I don't know the answer to.this question because I'm no dj yet. But when I think of a dj, he is a guy that fuucks many women at once because he wants to. That's not necessarily cheating though if he never agrees to exclusivity.
 

CaliMan007

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If you're in a committed exclusive relationship, then no, a DJ does not cheat as a DJ is all about being a man who possesses solid core values.

If you're just dating or playing the field then it isn't cheating.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Nakmuay_Juan

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I thank you all for your posts. I agree, as I feel a DJ is a man with a code and follows that code regardless of the actions of others.
 
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