"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Does a DJ cheat?

Nakmuay_Juan

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This is a topic that has become of recent relevance to me and I would like to hear other’s perspectives. Veteran DJ’s do you think it’s okay to cheat? Personally, I am against cheating as I like to put myself in other’s shoes and feel it’s unacceptable. I’ve been cheated on recently and lately I’ve been wondering if it’s better to pursue your desires and rather than remain faithful.

Is morality just another AFC projection?..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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expos

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Being a DJ is being a man.

I think when you've lost interest in someone, it's important to tell them face to face and cut ties so you can pursue what you really want...even if it's someone else.

Think of the term "cheating". Not a real noble trait is it? Think of the kid who cuts corners in a school yard race, or a professional athlete who dopes to win cycling events. Do you hold these people in high regard?

I hate cheaters.
 

fuko2007

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Part of being a man is having values. I had core values drilled into my head for a while. Honor, Courage, Commitment, And Integrity. Along with Humility and faith. Those are core values everyone should live by. And i believe Integrity and Commitment are the two you are questioning. Integrity is having the ability to do what is right even when nobody is looking or might find out. And Commitment im sure you can figuer out. With that said i frown upon chaeting. And if one partner cheats on another so the other one does it back is still not right. An eye for an eye in that case does nothing. So my stance is no, a real man does not cheat.
 

disgustipated

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Or is all this don't cheat , be a man, be faithful business just the female imperative keeping men in check? I don't know the answer to.this question because I'm no dj yet. But when I think of a dj, he is a guy that fuucks many women at once because he wants to. That's not necessarily cheating though if he never agrees to exclusivity.
 

CaliMan007

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If you're in a committed exclusive relationship, then no, a DJ does not cheat as a DJ is all about being a man who possesses solid core values.

If you're just dating or playing the field then it isn't cheating.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nakmuay_Juan

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I thank you all for your posts. I agree, as I feel a DJ is a man with a code and follows that code regardless of the actions of others.
 
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