"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does a DJ cheat?

Murse

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A question on ethics for you... As being a DJ is almost a way of life.

If you're dating a girl would you cheat on her for a hotter girl?

Oh and also, whats your opinions of girls asking if you've got Facebook? They obviously want to add you.... is that a good or a bad thing?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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dbx

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I hate cheating and always will.

If you want her to be exclusive, you should be too.
 

patrick.de

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doesn't sound really DJ to ask that kind of questions in an online forum and (possibly) base your own opinion upon the responses you get there.

if you have peace of mind while cheating and believe it's in your best interest, do it. if you hate cheating and have moral obligations, don't do it.

if you want to add a girl on facebook to keep in touch with her, do it.
if you don't want to add her because you don't like big social networks and all the crap associated with them, don't do it.

do whatever feels right to you and you're good. don't do what other people tell you to do, that's not DJ.
 

MM92

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Nope, don't agree with it. Although I have done it many times myself I plan to never do it again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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"DJ" at its core is not about morals and ethics. It is about attracting women.

DJ's can be faithful or cheaters. In some ways being a DJ is like holding a weapon. The weapon does not abide by a set of morals or codes. It only does what the holder desires.
 

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To me if you're cheating: you're not a DJ, you're just another PUA.
 

Murse

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
"DJ" at its core is not about morals and ethics. It is about attracting women.

DJ's can be faithful or cheaters. In some ways being a DJ is like holding a weapon. The weapon does not abide by a set of morals or codes. It only does what the holder desires.
Well done for getting through that without the star wars analogy... I was waiting on it haha. But yeah, I understand what you're saying.

I'm not in a relationship at the moment so can't cheat but there was a time when I was tested with a very hot girl... nothing came of it but it's always when you're in a relationship isn't it.....

Interesting to hear peoples views on it. I agree that a DJ should not cheat.
 

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If you cheat, your emotions will show and women are 10x better on reading emotions than men. If you lie, they know. Women have evolved over millions of years to detect a cheater/liar.

I hate people who cheat and I will never cheat.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i have cheated, once when i was younger, its not something i will do again.
Being DJ, you should be mature enough to accept your own decision to be exclusive. if this becomes too much of a burden, then break up.
 

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why cheat? if you want to bang a bunch of chicks just stay single and have as much fun as you want...
 

Zerro

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J Roc said:
why cheat? if you want to bang a bunch of chicks just stay single and have as much fun as you want...
Exactly, if you don't intend to be faithful then don't get into a relationship to begin with. If a chick wants one and you don't just be honest about it.
 

Desdinova

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
"DJ" at its core is not about morals and ethics. It is about attracting women.
The way I've always seen it is the DJ's personal goal is to have a happy and successful life. When that goal is accomplished, you get the side-effect of having an abundance of women interested in you. What you choose to do with these women is entirely up to you as long as you're content with the lifestyle that you're living.
 

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If I am not exclusive with a girl, than it doesn't matter who I date or have sex with. If I am exclusive with a girl, I would not cheat and sleep with other women. I wouldn't want her doing that to me either. If things aren't working out, it would be best to break off the relationship and than move on.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Really just depends on the person and situation. Live by your own code!
 

Boilermaker

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From my point of view, I never cheat. I just live like a man.

But it all depends on how you dress the particle, that is, how you define the word "cheat" ..

My definitions tend to draw some fire.

(especially from MANginas)
 
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