"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does a bar massage count as KINO

Jean Valjean

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I just came back from a bistro where an acquaintance of mine from social dances almost insisted I sit in front of her while she gave me a long neck back and hand massage. Does this count as major kino or what! She has a hot body but not face.
I have another woman pretty face but fatty who wants to be my dance partner.


I don' want to break hearts. How do I turn them into a fucck buddies and nothing else. I don't wnat them clinging to me at the dances niether.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jean Valjean said:
I just came back from a bistro where an acquaintance of mine from social dances almost insisted I sit in front of her while she gave me a long neck back and hand massage. Does this count as major kino or what! She has a hot body but not face.
I have another woman pretty face but fatty who wants to be my dance partner.


I don' want to break hearts. How do I turn them into a fucck buddies and nothing else. I don't wnat them clinging to me at the dances niether.
Whenever a woman "insists" like that, read it as a sign of major interest. When she rubs your body read it as womanspeek for "fukk me". However her offer is for a limited time only, she will close out that offer quickly unless you buy now.

You wrote, "I don't want to break hearts.."
Well, if you are doing your manly duty, you should be shattering at least two per year....and you also should have women fighting to dance with you and clinging like cream to a peach.

Now go out an act like a decent respectable 51 year old lethario.
 
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Jean Valjean

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jophil28 said:
Whenever a woman "insists" like that, read it as a sign of major interest. When she rubs your body read it as womanspeek for "fukk me". However her offer is for a limited time only, she will close out that offer quickly unless you buy now.

You wrote, "I don't want to break hearts.."
Well, if you are doing your manly duty, you should be shattering at least two per year....and you also should have women fighting to dance with you and clinging like cream to a peach.

Now go out an act like a decent respectable 51 year old lethario.
Thanks I will try to do you proud. See you're in sunny Australia mate.
I'll try to get them in my condo for dinner and seduce them I guess.

Thing is I just got over one beautiful woman that was a long painful struggle and heart ache for me. Now I seriously will consider getting back with my ex wife. Seeing what is out there has rekindled my affection for my lifes one true love.

I have to be sure though so maybe I'll see if I fucck some of these other women first. I'm wary a pretty, young Russian because she could steal my heart and I do not want to go that route again. Relationships hurt and are very taxing when they end again so painfully like my last one.
 
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