"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Doc Love Says: Go AFC on her ass!

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Here's a test if you are willing to take it. Pick a BBW or UG that has little of a social life. Approach her as a DJ and get her attracted to you such like the guy in Doc's article. Then start becoming a AFC. The odds are that she will accept it with little disdain. Willing to try it?
I haven't had any BBWs flinging themselves at me (strangely enough), but if one DOES latch onto me, I'll try it.

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Do you guys realize that this woman is a psycho???!!! She has MAJOR compulsive issues and you would want to keep her around to attract other women? Would other women approach you with this woman glaring over your shoulder?

Doc's system says that a good woman is giving, flexible and has integrity. This woman has none of these traits. The guy should be a challenge, confident and in control. His advice to get rid of this psycho is to become less of a challenge and appear to lessen your confidence level. Only a DJ in which has control over himself could pull this off without succumbing to the AFC dark side.

Some of you guys sound as if you think that every HB is worth having around for whatever purpose you need. Being dependent on having one around that is psycho is just as self defeating as saying that you need to drink to have the courage to talk to HBs. Both of them are crutches and DJs do not depend on crutches to keep or enhance their lifestyle.
Now HERE, I agree with you 100%.

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