"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Arewedoomed

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Do women make fake dating profiles to **** with their exes?

Here's what happened to me: I saw the profile of an ex in which she claimed she made the profile so she can match with her current boyfriend so they can see their old chat messages. If that was the case, then why did she make up a new profile that is completely different from her old one? What would the odds be that I happened to be on to see it? I sometimes text her friend that claims she doesn't say things to my ex, but I think the friend said I blocked them all on facebook and someone spent the night. I didn't bang the person.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Clockwerk50

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It’s confirmation bias. You already had a suspicion, so your brain started connecting dots to support what you wanted to believe. Confirmation bias is when you look for evidence that proves your belief while ignoring what doesn’t. The reality is, it could’ve been nothing.
 
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Prepostereax

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Once you've ex'd someone, you shouldn't be bothered what or why they say or do anything.
Who knows, if she was really hot, maybe the fake profile is a catfish of her (you still shouldn't care).

Once ex'd, it's sayonara, ciao, asta la vista baby~


If you're still in contact with her friends, why?
Keep in mind that a female mutual friend is of course still talking to your ex *(so what?), but she's not going to discuss that with you - which is totally appropriate and respectful, and she ought to naturally empathise with your ex more than with you, she simply wants to preserve both friendships..

..unless she's interested in banging you..

If she starts talking about it and taking your side, something's up..
{I'm not saying this is a wise move, if this is the case, more of a potential opportunity.}
 

BaronOfHair

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If that was the case, then why did she make up a new profile that is completely different from her old one?
It's not her, hoss. The machines are establishing dominion over the planet, and it's THEY, not your ex, who created this profile. Soon, they'll be sending All Terrain Armored Transports throughout the globe, for the express purpose of branding everyone with the mark of 666
 

Vanderdonck

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This is the kind of thing where I would just laugh, block, and move on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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