Do you write off women like this?

[SkrooU]

if you sense she’s testing your confidence, your intentions, your interest level

Example - you have a great conversation. She gives you her number but didn’t even ask for it. Then you call to ask her out and she gives the vague responses like “that might work we’ll have to see...or she says no to two different suggested times but offers no alternative and still says she’s open to meeting up.

I generally write this person off. Seems like only an insecure man would continue to beg for a date with someone who can’t be decisive yet expects you to be decisive.
Some women think this is a great way to test us. Apparently a real man will not give up if he’s really into a woman for the right reasons.

What about you guys?

 

[wifehunter]

High maintenance chicks are a pain.

She may look great now, but the constant testing, nagging, badgering will turn you off.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Nowadays anything less than an enthusiastic yes means low interest 99% of the cases.

We're not longer in mid 90s where there were few chances so the interaction were longer and well made, our social life is now in turbo mode, perseverance is no longer part of it.

Again as a general rule, an interested girl would never do anything that could cost her the man she wants therefore mixed signals, no replies or no counteroffers are red flags.

 

[wifehunter]

Nowadays anything less than an enthusiastic yes means low interest 99% of the cases.

We're not longer in mid 90s where there were few chances so the interaction were longer and well made, our social life is now in turbo mode, perseverance is no longer part of it.

Again as a general rule, an interested girl would never do anything that could cost her the man she wants therefore mixed signals, no replies or no counteroffers are red flags.

Yeah, she wouldn't do that to Brad Pitt!

 

[Stallionstud]

I banged a girl pretty easily recently that was wishy washy about dates. Kept giving me the “I’ll let you know” ... which she did. Date #2 and #3 smashed. There was no date 4 she was never truly interested apparently lol

 

[ohrein]

I banged a girl pretty easily recently that was wishy washy about dates. Kept giving me the “I’ll let you know” ... which she did. Date #2 and #3 smashed. There was no date 4 she was never truly interested apparently lol

Moderate interest means you're an option, not the priority. They'll go out with you for free drinks and meals and bone you if they're horny, but you kinda know subconsciously she's not reaaaaallly interested.

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

To me the things in the OP don't come across as a s*** test or a confidence test, they come across as immaturity and indecision.

I've learned the hard way that some girls are narcissists, irrational and you can't generate interest with them by "working on them". You just drive them away.

A girl like this will say that she wants a 6'2 muscular hunk. You're a 6'2" muscular hunk, you ask her out...and you get a no, or these vague mealy-mouthed platitudes you describe. That's because she's not actually looking to date/she's insecure, she just wants to "sound" like she has the ability to get 6'2" muscular hunks all the time. Which she actually may not have.

 

[marmel75]

You'll find for some reason women who give you their number without asking will rarely go on dates with you...

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

TS, you spin plates. I would start monkey branching onto her hot thinner young friends.

 

[devilkingx2]

You'll find for some reason women who give you their number without asking will rarely go on dates with you...

Perhaps they only give it to shut you up and get you to go away

 

[marmel75]

Perhaps they only give it to shut you up and get you to go away

In my experience it was more like they were professional AW's

 

[Murk]

I like high interest girls only, I used to think I had weak game and went for easy prey but I’ve come to realise whether hb5 or hb9 - if they like you they will make it easy. It’s cliche and so many guys on here say it but that’s because it’s true.

I’ve been with this girl Thursday night, then Friday night up to now Sunday afternoon (she’s in pharmacy getting the morning after pill) and I now realise she’s a solid 8.5 who is a little clingy. This could be a good thing though because we connect on every level she pays her own way (she looks high maintenance so was surprised actually), has a decent family with a lovely home. I’m thinking to hang up my gloves and jump into a relationship, maybe it’s a rebound, maybe I’m just looking for a companion.