"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KarmaSutra said:
Goddamn I love booblicious's honesty. Anyone who can outpost that damned Old Bird can't honestly have enough time out in the real world getting real experience. You can be the best KBJ in the world but I just can't see you keeping things around here in order. To be a Mod you must have a mean streak.

Sorry 'Cisco.

I would think WBA would be the ONLY person to Mod H&F.
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No prob but I'll let you in on something I believe is true; there are more than a couple other people in the forum with really high post counts. It's not apparent because they've done it using several accounts. I'm actually proud to say that I have never had the need to create another identity. :D

I'll add that I can hold my own without having a consistent mean streak. During a couple of flame wars I've had posts deleted because of the crass things I had said about the flamer. I'm not complaining about it, just stating that some of the guys here have seen me with my horns and pointy tail.. ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Create Reality said:
Somehow LMS is the only person who has managed to make it on my mute list so far. Not even wyldfire yet. I have alot of tolerance for most people but not dip$hits like LMS.
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This is a good example of a post that has the intention of starting a flame war!! I'm sure Francisco wouldn't allow such slander to be publicized!! I'm not even going to respond, in kind, to this flame by this Homo!!!
 
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Wyldfire- why did she get banned?

Whether you LIKE her or DONT - that issue aside.. Just want to know the REASON? Anyone?
 
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Ll Principe said:
Wyldfire- why did she get banned?

Whether you LIKE her or DONT - that issue aside.. Just want to know the REASON? Anyone?
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Men don't need to justify themselves or their actions.
 
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Vulpine said:
Men don't need to justify themselves or their actions.
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Yes they do (generally) - to the society......It would be a different storry if you lived in the mountans where your actions don't impact anybody esle.

In this case it was for the good of the forum; she was a magnet for contraversy, arguing etc....and she refused to pick her battles.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This is a good example of a post that has the intention of starting a flame war!! I'm sure Francisco wouldn't allow such slander to be publicized!! I'm not even going to respond, in kind, to this flame by this Homo!!!
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I don't know, maybe it could be considered free advertisement to attest to one's infamy. There's someone who lists the people that they're ignoring in their sig, I think he listed both of us! :up: Hey, whatever a person needs to do to get by....
 
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Last Man Standing said:
This is a good example of a post that has the intention of starting a flame war!! I'm sure Francisco wouldn't allow such slander to be publicized!! I'm not even going to respond, in kind, to this flame by this Homo!!!
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Isn't quoting, replying, and attacking him a "response"?
 
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This thread has veered off course.

Lets get back on topic
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rome wasn't built in a day :)
 
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Last Man Standing said:
New Mod wanted - anyone thinking about becoming a mod? Wyldfire, Francisco, and I are the longstandng ones - I nominate Francisco to finally take hold of the reigns - any seconds?
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Anyone who seeks to be a mod should be disqualified as a sane candidate.
 
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grinder said:
Anyone who seeks to be a mod should be disqualified as a sane candidate.
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I might have to agree with that. Who would want a hard thankless job like that anyway...

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