"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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penkitten said:
Where is my mind... do i know you?
It's Don Ronny!

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oooh **** i didnt know you were prl i thought u were ip banned...
well welcome
Shhhh, I'm trying to keep a low profile.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I would submit myself to be a moderator except being a babysitter ain't my thang. That's one thing you learn about life in general: to be a supervisor in any given profession or to otherwise lead a supervisory role in any given context is to, for a large part, regardless of adult ages, babysit children.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I just want to point out something and this isn't specific to ( . )( . ). No matter who you are, once you start living your life on your terms and it shows, there will be people who will snipe at you; it's a fact of life.

Think about it, when was the last time that you shared some really good news about your life with a group of people and everyone was genuinely happy for you. How many times did you just get accolades without anyone deflecting the good times or trying to burst your bubble? It's a rarity.

It's very cliche but "misery does love company." It's much harder to elevate yourself to the levels of others. It's easier to try to pull others down. That in itself is neither good nor bad, it's just the way that it is. The thing that could be considered bad is if you allow them to do it to you.
Rock on !!

Look mate I'll be fair, your probably a good bloke and all but a moderator of a site dedicated to the gaining and understanding of snatch should at least know the basic sh!t, from what I've seen the pissing in pockets and touchy feely feel good stuff to gain your "rep" aside, your understanding is lacking.No offence...a forum dedicated to the latest goings on in Hollywood or something, yeah you would be a killer mod. But here? Come on, you know I'm right.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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( . )( . ) said:
Rock on !!

Look mate I'll be fair, your probably a good bloke and all but a moderator of a site dedicated to the gaining and understanding of snatch should at least know the basic sh!t, from what I've seen the pissing in pockets and touchy feely feel good stuff to gain your "rep" aside, your understanding is lacking.No offence...a forum dedicated to the latest goings on in Hollywood or something, yeah you would be a killer mod. But here? Come on, you know I'm right.
Francisco is the most reputable person on this site!!!! He is the most level-headed and non-confrontational personality posting here and thus makes for a great moderator!!!

We all have differences with one another so no one gets 100% confidence from all - no one comes closer to unanimous than Francisco --- Victory Unlimited and A-Unit are a close second to Francisco
 
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PRL??? LoL. =X

Anybody know PL's new screen name?:wave:
The Last Man Standing is PR_L and PR_L is the Last Man Standing!!!!
 
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Rock on !!

Look mate I'll be fair, your probably a good bloke and all but a moderator of a site dedicated to the gaining and understanding of snatch should at least know the basic sh!t, from what I've seen the pissing in Bockets and touchy feely feel good stuff to gain your "rep" aside, your understanding is lacking.No offence...a forum dedicated to the latest goings on in Hollywood or something, yeah you would be a killer mod. But here? Come on, you know I'm right.
Francisco is the most reputable person on this site!!!! He is the most level-headed and non-confrontational personality posting here and thus makes for a great moderator!!!

We all have differences with one another so no one gets 100% confidence from all - no one comes closer to unanimous than Francisco --- Victory Unlimited and A-Unit are a close second to Francisco!

Francisco doesn't give the textbook DJ Bible answer - he probes and asks questions to allow one to formulate their own answer through introspection - which is the best guidance!!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Francisco is the most reputable person on this site!!!! He is the most level-headed and non-confrontational personality posting here and thus makes for a great moderator!!!

We all have differences with one another so no one gets 100% confidence from all - no one comes closer to unanimous than Francisco --- Victory Unlimited and A-Unit are a close second to Francisco
Who the hell cares about a mod that wont "rock the boat" and is loved by all. How bout one that has a decent grasp of understanding chicks *GASP* and posts about it. They found Rollo Tomassi did they not? I'm sure there are others out there.

A "reputation" :rolleyes: , ..fvck me dead LMS, what the hell happened to you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The purpose of a moderator.
To assist an administrator in CONTROL of the board.

That's the number one sole purpose of a moderator. Knowing about girls, that's a second priority. Everyone's gotta understand that.
 

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( . )( . ) said:
Rock on !!

Look mate I'll be fair, your probably a good bloke and all but a moderator of a site dedicated to the gaining and understanding of snatch should at least know the basic sh!t, from what I've seen the pissing in pockets and touchy feely feel good stuff to gain your "rep" aside, your understanding is lacking.No offence...a forum dedicated to the latest goings on in Hollywood or something, yeah you would be a killer mod. But here? Come on, you know I'm right.
Here's something to consider, could it be possible that your premise on what this site should be about a bit different from many (but not all) of the other members of the forum? That the will of women must be conquered in order to gain their affection? That women are so such enigmas that the only way that the average guy can't compete by any means other than force?

I see it from another angle. Why not level the playing field? Why not understand how women operate while enhancing our own qualities in order to not only differentiate ourselves from the DJ at the next table, but also feel good about ourselves without putting the guy down? How's that for feel good? But when women are in the presence of a guy with this type of character, she sees it as confidence and self control. Not saying that this is the only way to attract women, it's just an option which works for me (and probably a couple of other guys in the forum).

I'm not one to put the presence of women in life as the defining factor of my quality of life. The quality comes from me feeling good about myself and that is what I expound in this forum. I've yet to pick up a woman when I have a piss poor attitude. I'm guessing that many guys have a bad attitude about women because they feel that there is an actual battle between the sexes, and they feel that they are losing.

So call it "feel good," "Zen-like" or whatever. It works [for me] because women do not define who I am. I'm guessing that is the thing that makes us different and is possibly why LMS surprised you with his post which he recognized my composure online (at least most of the time) and my lack of always focusing on women. I may be wrong but let's face facts, you're the one who's screen name is a graphic depiction of a part of a woman's anatomy (talk about Freudian).

I didn't mean to make this a lecture and I'm not saying anything that other guys haven't posted already (thanks guys). Being a Mod is about looking out for the best interest of the forum and you recognize this. Just because we have different views on sarging women is just that, a difference; don't make it into more than what it really is.
 

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( . )( . ) said:
Rock on !!

Look mate I'll be fair, your probably a good bloke and all but a moderator of a site dedicated to the gaining and understanding of snatch should at least know the basic sh!t, from what I've seen the pissing in pockets and touchy feely feel good stuff to gain your "rep" aside, your understanding is lacking.No offence...a forum dedicated to the latest goings on in Hollywood or something, yeah you would be a killer mod. But here? Come on, you know I'm right.
Goddamn I love booblicious's honesty. Anyone who can outpost that damned Old Bird can't honestly have enough time out in the real world getting real experience. You can be the best KBJ in the world but I just can't see you keeping things around here in order. To be a Mod you must have a mean streak.

Sorry 'Cisco.

I would think WBA would be the ONLY person to Mod H&F.
 

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( . )( . ) said:
Rock on !!

Look mate I'll be fair, your probably a good bloke and all but a moderator of a site dedicated to the gaining and understanding of snatch should at least know the basic sh!t, from what I've seen the pissing in pockets and touchy feely feel good stuff to gain your "rep" aside, your understanding is lacking.No offence...a forum dedicated to the latest goings on in Hollywood or something, yeah you would be a killer mod. But here? Come on, you know I'm right.

I know this francisco guy has over 10,000 posts and has not once talked about getting a girl or anything to do with woman (probably is not active in the game). However I feel that he would make a great mod. Some people such as myself have been involved in flame wars. We need someone here who is clear headed and francisco fits that description.

If francisco does not get the job then I will start a sosuave riot.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Docs said:
The purpose of a moderator.
To assist an administrator in CONTROL of the board.

That's the number one sole purpose of a moderator. Knowing about girls, that's a second priority. Everyone's gotta understand that.
Moderators needs to be knowledgable about the topic of the board and most definatly needs to be part of the community and have a good grasp over whats going on. Not just blindly adhere to the rules.

Just look at what whent on with Trollfire.
 

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Last Man Standing said:
Truth is neither mature nor immature - it just is!!! Blame the Hor for her voluntary condition and not the one who speaks truth!!

Embrace your masculinity and Say "No" to Hos!!! The immature male rejects truth and embraces hors in it stead!!!
Preach on. It's a female tactic that labels anything she disagrees with as immature, thus invalidating any point you might have.
 

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Don Ronny? Naaah! :up: ! I guess I'll change my siggy then celebrate someone's banning... I won't say who.. but she *oops* starts with "Wyld" and ends with "fire"!

I nominate Shezz and his padawan Docs.

Boobalicious and LMS would be great mods, though I don't think they want the job. They do not tolerate bs!

I'm dissapointed no one has nominated me, you should know I'm the crude version of cool mixed in with a "masculine-EX" powder. Would I like to be a mod though? I probably would!
 

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Somehow LMS is the only person who has managed to make it on my mute list so far. Not even wyldfire yet. I have alot of tolerance for most people but not dip$hits like LMS.
 

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lookyoung said:
I know this francisco guy has over 10,000 posts and has not once talked about getting a girl or anything to do with woman (probably is not active in the game). However I feel that he would make a great mod. Some people such as myself have been involved in flame wars. We need someone here who is clear headed and francisco fits that description.
Search the forum, I have a handful of FRs out there when there semi-major changes in my dating life. The problem with posting about your interactions with women in this forum is that a lot of people will take an experience as an absolute as to how you live your life and will become exaggerated. For example, one woman whom I posted about, dated and broken up with some people thought I was engaged to, there was nothing further from the truth.

Plus in my escapades will break rules because I tend to meet up with women who aren't the stereotypical norm (look for a thread about married women). So posting these things may confuse some of the guys who are just learning. Most of the advice I give on these things are through PM. A lot of guys in the forum realize that not all situations are cut and dry so they choose not to post some of their questions in the forum. Hey, whatever works.

Lastly, there's something about coming off as an attention wh0re when you consistently post about "me, me, me, I, I, I." We've had members like this in the past, there are some still in the forum, some have been banned (more than once) and I'm sure that there will be more in the future. I'm just not one to post a lot of "Me to" or "that's happened to me" type posts as a means of camaraderie. I believe that just being here is camaraderie enough.
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If francisco does not get the job then I will start a sosuave riot.
Thanks for your support but no need to go to any extremes. Besides, I'm still capable of ensuing turmoil on my own.. :up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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